Sorry if any of you post at SN in SC4 b/c I already posted this there, but I felt the need to really bitch about it where I didn't need to be so, um, restrained.
OK, DH and I decided NOT to find out the sex of the baby. Mostly DH was REALLY dead set against it b/c to him a lot of the fun of the pregnancy is wondering. I kind of did want to find out but in the end decided I didn't want to know so badly to make DH miss out on his fun.
So, last week we had out U/S and we did NOT find out, but we did get pictures. I emailed them out to all friends and family. My mom proceeds to email them to two of her cousins who just *HAPPEN* to be doctors. What the fuck!? So, of course, they tell her what it is for SURE and instead of keeping her fucking mouth shut she TELLS me. (She told me, "Well I thought you wanted to know!")
So, now I've had my gut feeling that it's a boy confirmed (YEA!
) but I have to pretend until October that I don't know the sex of the baby. I would tell him that my mom told me and I just don't know the sex but 1) I'm afraid I'd screw up and tell him and 2)I already thought it was a boy and was buying boy clothes so DH would figure it out too easily. He ain't no dumbshit.
Anyway, I feel a little better, but I'm still pretty fucking pissed since I was really OK w/not finding out until the baby was born. (That was what we did w/DD and it was fun.)