luvmaboyz
09-06-2003, 06:06 AM
Long story shortish, I was accepted into university back in 2000. I was doing my Bachelor of Science, majoring in psychology. I did really really well in my first year, I got all Higher Distinctions on my subjects completed.
But, I didn't feel fulfilled, and then when I finally fell pg, I decided to defer and try and decide what it was I really wanted from life. Life threw me a bit of a curve ball, my oldest was finally diagnosed with Asperger's, I had to go back to work sooner than planned to help pay for his therapy, I got caught up in being a new mum all over again and I just couldn't decide what it was I wanted to do.
I knew I wanted to do something working with children raised in violent households or from minority groups. I wanted to help them find some light in life and realise their greatest potential, but I just didn't know how to do this.
Fast forward to this week. I realised, I had already been given the opportunity to work with these children, I just hadn't realised it. It was pure luck and sheer determination that even got me accepted to university in the first place. I didn't even finish high school, yet got an entrance exam score in the top 6%. I got into psychology for a reason, and here I was throwing it away.
So I called the university and asked to be reinstated. I have to write a letter to the dean showing that I am willing to now complete my subjects, and if he accepts, I am back in!!! I know this won't be too much of a problem, I will sit down in the next couple of days and word the letter.
I feel an enormous amount of relief for having decided. I am very very excited about getting back into it. I wasn't going to tell my dh until it was all finalised, but ended up telling him last night, and he is just as excited.
Just had to let someone know :D I will be in here a lot more often in the very near future. WooooHooooo!
But, I didn't feel fulfilled, and then when I finally fell pg, I decided to defer and try and decide what it was I really wanted from life. Life threw me a bit of a curve ball, my oldest was finally diagnosed with Asperger's, I had to go back to work sooner than planned to help pay for his therapy, I got caught up in being a new mum all over again and I just couldn't decide what it was I wanted to do.
I knew I wanted to do something working with children raised in violent households or from minority groups. I wanted to help them find some light in life and realise their greatest potential, but I just didn't know how to do this.
Fast forward to this week. I realised, I had already been given the opportunity to work with these children, I just hadn't realised it. It was pure luck and sheer determination that even got me accepted to university in the first place. I didn't even finish high school, yet got an entrance exam score in the top 6%. I got into psychology for a reason, and here I was throwing it away.
So I called the university and asked to be reinstated. I have to write a letter to the dean showing that I am willing to now complete my subjects, and if he accepts, I am back in!!! I know this won't be too much of a problem, I will sit down in the next couple of days and word the letter.
I feel an enormous amount of relief for having decided. I am very very excited about getting back into it. I wasn't going to tell my dh until it was all finalised, but ended up telling him last night, and he is just as excited.
Just had to let someone know :D I will be in here a lot more often in the very near future. WooooHooooo!