Pocket money

[luvmaboyz]

My son is 11 1/2, and until now I haven't really done the whole pocket money for chores thing cos he just didn't get it. But I think he is maturing a little, and is now at that age where he thinks money is never-ending, coupled with the 'why the heck should I do that' attitude. Hence, I think it is time.

Teaching monetary responsibility is one area my parents kinda let us down. We never really understood where it came from, what it was for or if indeed there was any. My brother and I are both still useless with money.

So, would you start with chores that are worth a particular amount, and add it up at the end of the week for each chore completed, or is it better to have a set weekly amount, and if the chores are done they get no pocket money?

Any links would be greatly appreciated :D

[hughmook]

This has been a real bone of contention between my dh and myself. Dd used to get a flat allowance but then she started getting ornery and lazy about helping out so dh cut her off completely! I slip her money here and there for helping me out w/ her sister or doing chores or whatever. Then she gets toothfairy money and she gets money from her grandma for helping her out at work. I'm afraid I don't have alot of advice to offer.