Has anyone ever worked through a really rough patch in a marriage.
I mean like, hostility, no sex, resentment, judgemental non support, selfishness, disinterest, the list goes on.
Just wondering. I hate to think about getting another divorce but dh is acting like a dick, he cannot get over shit I did and said while I was ppd-ing. I straightened right up when I got on the prozac, but he likes to bring up things I did (which were pretty bad) and things I said (which were worse) when I was way off kilter last summer.
This, of course, makes me mad and perpetuates a level of histility that I am not going to live with. Plus since we're currently living apart most of the time it's so easy to kind of imagine things just going on like this until I just move on.
We tried counnseling but he was so hysterical he couldn't get through an hour without crying and getting really really upset.
i am distraught. I also don't think there are many irl I can talk to, pride is an issue, also what if we dont split up, then I'll have girlfriends who know how bad it is and that's the worst.