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I am so very sorry this happened to you and so glad that your mom can come out and help you with your son and your well being. You need some mommy time. I hope that mom helps in ways that you need and that you get the comfort and support you need as well. I can understand not wanting to tell anyone, I really can.

Sending you lots of hugging vibes, I wish I could do more for you!
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You've gotten excellent advice here already, so I'll just say that I'm sorry this is happening to you, and am sending you healing vibes.

For as raunchy and fucked-up snarky as SM's can be sometimes, it really is an excellent place for support.

We're here for you if you need an ear or a shoulder. There is ALWAYS someone online here, even in the wee hours.
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Still thinking of you.

You ARE strong. Asking for help, and accepting it once given, requires strength. You've done that with your mom, and for that I am grateful.

What Limey said is correct, and so on the money that I'l reiterate it:

You have the right to walk anywhere and everywhere, at any time of day without any repercussions at all.

You want to find a reason why this happened. Totally understandable. The only thing that you CAN do, that you know HOW to do, is to blame yourself, because it's truly an uncomprehensable notion that a stranger would hurt you for no reason. But HE is to blame. Not you. Not you. Not you. Not you.

You are hurt. But you are not Click here to enlarge. You are not less than you were before. You are not. You will emerge from this, and you will be stronger than you were before. But it will take time. Long after the bruises have faded, and the physical stuff has healed, you will still be healing mentally. Give yourself time. Allow yourself to be angry. Allow yourself to cry. Being angry, or crying, does not mean that you aren't strong. It means that you're mourning, you're pissed, and that you're healing.

We're here for you.
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So many people had such wise words on this thread so I'll just Click here to enlarge. You will still be strong if you go to the crisis center. Sometimes being strong is knowing when it's time to get help.Click here to enlarge

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Oh my Click here to enlarge I'm so very, very sorry this has happened to you. Just know you are in my thoughts.

And please know that asking for help does not make you less strong...sometimes asking is the hardest thing you can do, and you have to be strong in order to do it.
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I'm so sorry.
No one should have to go through something like this.

I'm keeping you in my thoughts.
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Oh no, I'm sorry to read this. If you do want to talk about it there are places here at SM to talk about it that are more private.
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I'm so sorry. Sometimes the strong ones also need support-that's what friends are for, IRL or www. And add me to the list of those who will encourage you to go to the rape crisis center, they surely know how to deal with what you feel right now, and whatever feelings will surge in the next days.
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Click here to enlarge I want to offer my sympathy and support as well. You did not cause this in any way, you are not to blame. Please, seek out the RL support you need. You don't have to go through this alone.
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You are in my thoughts. I am so sorry for what you have been through. Words just can't express...
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Thank you everyone. Mom is here and helping a lot. I am going to see a counselor again today. I am doing much better. The pain isn't as bad (physically) but the emotional shit is starting. I am terrified of going back to work. Mom is going to be here for a least another week. My son is absolutely loving that G'ma is here.
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I'm glad your mom is there to help you.
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Just checking in with you, hon. I'm so glad your mom was able to come out and be with you.

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I am sorry this happened to you, and I hope the attacker gets what he deserves!
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I am so sorry this happened to you. I'm glad your mom is there for you and that you're seeking help. I hope you find peace soon. Click here to enlarge
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My Doctor prescribed Ativan. I took one last night and finally slept through the night. I am not a pill popper but dang it was nice to finally sleep.

The bite marks are healing and not hurting as much. More like a bunch of bruises and the scabs are healing. the only one that hurts is on the lips of my vaginal area. The Dr had to shave that area and now that it's healing and the pubic hair is growing back, well, it itches.

I really appreciate that I had this area to come to. I have IRL friends, but I could talk more freely here. No one really knows me so it's not like you would cry for me, if that makes sense. My mom and best friend is here and when we start talking they cry and I can't handle that.
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