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Yes but he has the kids and they are safe. I'm not going to take from them.


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It stops here. This stops with me. I am so grateful for this chance to learn how to like myself.


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I will say this, it is a whole lot easier to learn to like yourself when you surround yourself with people who like you. Much more difficult when you are around people who never let you forget your flaws and shortcomings.
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Click here to enlarge. Thank you guys so much. He filled me in on the kids etc and I said I would back him up from this end with rules etc no matter what. He may be an ass to me sometimes but he's a good Dad.


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I will say this, it is a whole lot easier to learn to like yourself when you surround yourself with people who like you. Much more difficult when you are around people who never let you forget your flaws and shortcomings.
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Also, I've thought he was an asshole for a long time (and said so). He doesn't deserve you even a tiny little bit, and you definitely don't need to be with him. I wish you much peace and strength.
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Also, I've thought he was an asshole for a long time (and said so). He doesn't deserve you even a tiny little bit, and you definitely don't need to be with him. I wish you much peace and strength.
I am SO glad it wasn't just me...I used to think it often too, thatsit, but I felt like the asshole. I think I might have said so in not-so-many words, and you don't deserve that.
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Often I think you are only hearing my side though. I mean I'm not saying he isn't one but I am only telling my side. I mean I have no reason to lie at this point. Seriously, you guys know the big shit, why would I lie about that, right?

I'm cleaning up my side of the road and leaving him to figure out his side himself. I refuse to live in that misery anymore. I'm sad today but I'm feeling peaceful for the first time in so so long. I have food stamps, a job at a call center that has funky hours, I live right next to a meth house, but I don't give a good doG damn anymore-I'd rather be broke and living in my car than surround myself with that heart ache ever again. Click here to enlarge
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I'm glad you are getting out of that marriage and so glad you are where you need to be, getting well. Click here to enlarge. That man does not have your best interests at heart and you are much better off focusing on yourself without him. Your girls will see your strength and tenacity and they will learn from that. Click here to enlarge.

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