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post #41 of 56 (permalink) Old 01-21-2014, 09:40 PM Thread Starter
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Met with exH to return wedding ring and get some stuff. Cried in King Soopers in front of God and everyone and then for another 45 min on the way to my Dad's. This just sucks even if you know you can't stay with the person.

Like I said, fuck today.


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My biggest fear is that there is no PMS and that this is my personality.
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Why return the wedding ring? Unless it was a family heirloom from his side.

I am not one of those who believe - broadly speaking - that women are better than men. We have not wrecked railroads, nor corrupted legislatures, nor done many unholy things that men have done; but then we must remember that we have not had the chance.- Jane Addams
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Fuck yesterday. But today will be different. It's okay to grieve. Allow yourself to do that even while you have hope for the future.
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It does suck. I don't want to be with my ex, and I am so glad to be away from him, but there are lots of things that hit me. It's crazy. I'm looking forward to when that stops happening so much.

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Why would you give him back a piece of jewelry you could have hocked for the gold money at least?!!!!

You need to be thinking of these things. That isn't his ring. It is yours. Stop being symbolic and be practical.
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Family heirloom and piece of crap to be honest.


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post #48 of 56 (permalink) Old 01-28-2014, 03:41 PM
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I'm sorry I missed this thread. I too always thought he was an ass.

You will get through this and the other side will be so much nicer and more peaceful.

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What is nice about all of this though is that I no longer have to give a rats fart about what HE does or says to me. I get to own my part of this divorce etc and walk away leaving him to deal with his part. He has no way to cope to be honest. He needs help too. Not just for our issues and how they affected him but for his own shit. I've tried to help him at the risk of my own health and sanity. I know it isn't my job and I just did it so I didn't have to face myself or the rest of the shit show, but I'm back to me again. No threats, etc but no more door mat or "yes" woman either.

Thank the Gods or what the fuck ever that I have people in my life who love me unconditionally.


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Dear doG he's a dick. What a manipulative piece of shit, along with my Mother who believes I should just let him continue to treat me like shit because of my past. I need to practice the apathetic stuff so it carries into all my dealings with him and her if she keeps this shit up. The opposite of love is not hate, it's apathy. Water, rinse, repeat.


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I think that's the toughest, not getting sucked in emotionally and especially not falling back into old patterns in my own responses to my ex as well as to those who are still snowed by his act.

Hang in there, you can do this and it sounds like you have a good support system where you're at.

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Ugh. Yes, you've had problems in your past. But that doesn't mean you're no longer worthy of a respectful, loving relationship. You can be grateful that he stuck with you through the bad stuff without committing to being punished for it for the rest of your life.
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