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Do not give him any money unless you are court ordered to do so.
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No. No money for him. If you want to take some and do something special for the girls - yes. IF you can do it. If not - fuck him.
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I told him to sell some of the 30,000 grand in assets (guns, motorcycles) and that I would sign paperwork to do that if he wanted to pay down his credit card debt. I am walking away with 50,000 in debt, and my sanity. That 9,000 approx is all I have. I gave away my home, my kids, etc by using. I can't fix this by giving up anything else. It's almost like he wants me to buy his forgiveness and I will not do it.

He's being sweet as pie right now about the details of sending the check. Where the fuck was he when I was freaking out about my head wound in the ER? "How is the car?" Fuck him /vent.


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You're doing the right thing. Sounds like he has a lot of options and doesn't want to give up his toys.

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You sure he is going to send the check?


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I thought it was coming to her from the insurance co. At least I sure as shit hope it is.
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Don't worry about any of this. That's what court is for.

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