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post #1 of 10 (permalink) Old 05-13-2003, 06:22 AM Thread Starter
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I am 32 wks pregnant today. I asked my man to account for his where abouts a certain night. He couldnt. Then said he wants to break up. He has dogged me alot through this pregnancy but now he has committed the ultimate betrayl.
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I really just dont undrestand????
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Oh boy. Get thee some counselling even if you are going there alone. Get your ducks in a row for support from him ($$$), and whatever support you can get as a single mom.

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I've been cheated on a lot. It sucks. It is a horrible, horrible feeling. I'm sorry you're dealing with this when you're also about to have a baby! That truly sucks.

Here's what I think: there are a few really good men (and women) who cheat for one reason or another but are able to recover through humility and hard work. They are idiots who can't communicate their need for something and end up cheating but really love their women and are willing to do the years of work it takes to recover from something like this. The worst betrayal I ever suffered was when an ex slept with my best friend. The ex is loooooong since history because she was a fucknut, but the best friend was able to remain my best friend (after about a year of struggle) and she is still with the partner she had at the time (10 years later they are going strong).

But... your man doesn't sound like this kind of guy. You say he has dogged you a lot. Sounds to me like he feels trapped and wants out but isn't humane enough to just say so. He sounds weak and lame and like a total asshole. Get away from him ASAP - you don't need that kind of energy around you when you're about to birth a babe. Make plans to take care of yourself and your babe.

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I am sorry to hear this. Click here to enlarge

I hope that you are not dependant on the SOB.
Good luck and I agree get some therapy especially being pregnant and about to give birth.
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I am so sorry that you are going through this. Do you want to give him a swift Click here to enlarge for doing this to you? Hang in there!
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Men can be pigs im so sorry he uch a jerk and ur ring this beautiful life into this world for himand he doesnt even relsie it((hugs))
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Men can be pigs im so sorry he uch a jerk and ur ring this beautiful life into this world for himand he doesnt even relsie it((hugs))
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Lovebourbon, I just want to say that I am sorry about your so. I hope you can find support from someone else.
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Men can be pigs im so sorry he uch a jerk and ur ring this beautiful life into this world for himand he doesnt even relsie it((hugs))
= Men can be pigs. I'm so sorry he is such a jerk. (And) you are bringing this beautiful life into this world for him and he doesn't even realize it. ((hugs))


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