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post #1 of (permalink) Old 11-05-2017, 01:37 PM Thread Starter
phoebe
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Smile Going to be a single mom

Hello, girls. I知 here to find out how is it being a single mom. I divorced with my husband three years ago. The reason is my infertility. He left me when he found out that I知 unable to give birth. He got married again. Now he has a daughter. I think he was dating this woman even when we were married. I know that it is unfair, but I知 not ready to discuss it. I still dream to have kids. Actually, I always wanted to be a mom. But I never wanted to adopt. I started looking for solutions. I found a lot of information about surrogacy with donor sperm. I believe it can help me. I知 looking for real stories of women, who already did the same. I知 a little bit scared, you know.
I consulted several fertility specialists. They told me that my eggs are fine and I can do it. I知 wondering, will this baby be genetically related to me? What should I do to protect my future baby and myself? I知 afraid that the surrogate will keep the baby. Is it possible?
Also, I have no idea what medical center to choose. I know that surrogacy is illegal in most countries. So, where should I go? Is it allowed to use the surrogacy if I知 not gonna get married again. I will never repeat this mistake. Now I know that men don稚 help. I am a strong woman and I can raise a baby alone.
So, the question is what problems will I face being a single mom? Is it that hard?
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