we have the one and i am finally content. (i had baby fever for years after ds (now 4) was born, but dh kept putting it off saying it wasn't the right time with his deployments and all.)
and now that ds is weaned, in his own bed, etc things are pretty calm here. plus we are cramped for space, so i have no idea where i'd put another baby. and now dh wants to go back to college at nights, so i'd be alone with the baby all the time anyway (as if he were deployed).
and i think of all the great things we can do for ds if he is an only. (not talking fancy clothes, but talking about college, extracurriculars, etc) we go out together, the three of us and have a nice time, reading books and drinking hot chocolate....
i just love our life right now.
i sometimes think it would be nice to have another baby, but my preg with ds was so difficult and he was a very high-needs baby.... but i'm not going to say never.
i'm keeping my options open. (my dr would kill me if he heard that i was postponing. he gave me 2 years to have a baby -endo and pcos- and it's been almost 2 years - next month - since he told me that.