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post #1 of 12 (permalink) Old 01-08-2018, 10:32 AM Thread Starter
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I just want to give up now

Hi there guys, I hope you are fine. I am not. I just want to give up now. I don't want to live anymore. I always wanted to become a mother. I no found out that it could never happen for me ever. I am nothing now. I am gone. Please tell me what should I do.
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post #2 of 12 (permalink) Old 01-26-2018, 12:59 PM
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I am so sad to read this. Seems to me you give up from life. Don't be so negative. If you can't conceive naturally, why don't consider other options. Don't give up so easily. My advice to you is to contact some fertility clinics. Explain them your situation. You don't have anything to lose.
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You're right! You have your answer to your words! You shouldn't give up! Yes! You can have a child. You just to be hopeful and do whatever it takes! Think of other options! I also wasted 5 years as a TTC. Later I went to Ukraine for an IVF. So, yeah! If I didn't have an IVF. I would never have been able to have a child. Re-think your options! Stay blessed! I'd really be happy to help if you need it! xx
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I feel so bad after hearing this. But let me tell you, honey, there's still hope. Don't give up just now. There are many successful techniques which can make your dream come true. Have you heard about IVF or surrogacy yet? If you didn't, let me tell you these both techniques have 95% success rate. Many mothers achieved their dreams by this. Your dream of becoming a mother is still possible hon!
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Hey there. Sad to hear about you.
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post #6 of 12 (permalink) Old 02-03-2018, 11:05 AM
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Hey there. Sad to hear about you.
I am doing well.
Don't give up like this. It seems like you are giving up your life. Don't be this sad. Now there are a lot of ways through which you can be a mum. I can understand how shattered you are right now. But don't lose hope. Gather yourself up. Start learning about IVF and surrogacy. If you need my help, just tell me. I will help you as much as I could. Stay positive.
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Hello there. You must be going through something very bad that's why you sound so sad. I hope that you get over it as soon as possible.You will have all the support that you want on this platform. We are always there for you during your good and bad time. It would have been more clear if you had provided the main reason for you not be able to become a mother. I am not sure if it's due to infertility or some other kind of disease. If you get to provide us the exact reason behind not be able to conceive, I would be able to help you out. you sound very sad and hopeless. you should not give up this easily. There are so many other women like you who have found the solution to their problem instead of being hopeless. Please try to share more detail with us so that we can help you out with your problem. You have no idea about the number of treatments there are out there that can help you out with everything. stay strong and I will be waiting for your reply.
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post #8 of 12 (permalink) Old 02-17-2018, 07:32 AM
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Hey Tina. I was exactly where you are right now. I can totally feel your pain. You can still be a mother. Please don't lose hope. Surrogacy is a great option for the couples who can't have children. I had my boy through surrogacy. I went to this clinic they have in Ukraine. Maybe you can try it out too. I'm sure you won't regret it. Good luck.
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The first positive sign is that you are seeking help. That shows you are brave enough to face your problems. Good for you. We all feel this anxiety once in awhile. It is better to not let it dissolve you. Rather fight it. Show yourself that you are a strong women. And as for becoming a mother. With the advances we hear everyday, I hardly think there is something that is not treatable. Seek some medical attention. It is not the end of the world. I thought so as well when I was diagnosed. 3 years of struggle and hardships, but little Emma makes it all worth it. I hope the same for you as well. Stay strong and positive. Much love.
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post #10 of 12 (permalink) Old 03-05-2018, 10:44 PM
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Dear tinarose, it is sad to hear such stories. I can feel the pain inside. I don't say that avoid this because it is really heartbreaking for a woman to learn that she cannot enjoy the blessings of becoming a mother. This anxiety and stress are very natural. I experienced the same few years back but what brought me back to life was the belief that life holds so much for us too. Life is all not dark. it has beautiful colors and hues. Infertility is no more a menace. It can be answered with the assistance of IVF and surrogacy. Don't let your disappointment stay too long or else it would damage your personal life.
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Hi there guys, I hope you are fine. I am not. I just want to give up now. I don't want to live anymore. I always wanted to become a mother. I no found out that it could never happen for me ever. I am nothing now. I am gone. Please tell me what should I do.
Oh dear! Don't lose hope! Well, I am also a TTC for 6 years. I've been there. I know how it feels. But still after years of trying I'm still having an IVF later this year in Ukraine. Well, you need to be strong now! You can still have a child...Seek your options! All the best! xx
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post #12 of 12 (permalink) Old 03-06-2018, 05:51 AM
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No need to worry there are so many other solutions to have a baby. Don't loose hope, you are very lucky that you are born in modern era. technology is improving day by day. All you have to find is the perfect place for your self to have a baby. Surrogacy is the best option for you. It's very tough time for you to think about any thing. But you have to think about this. Because having complete information about this surrogacy can help you out. I used to think bad about this. When i was unaware of the treatment. But believe me there are lot of good things in this process. Just wait for the right time. You have to think positive if you really want to have a baby in your life. Positive thinking is the key to success. There are lot of good clinics providing facility to have a baby through surrogacy process. So no need to take a lot of tension. Just follow all the basics well. I am sure you will get got results in the end.
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