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kylie 03-27-2018 10:47 AM

IVF stories
 
Hey everyone. So my friend's first IVF cycle is starting next month. She is very nervous at the moment. It would mean a lot to us if you share your successful IVF stories. They will make her feel better about this. Thank you so much. Your prayers will be appreciated too.

justicejay 03-27-2018 12:02 PM

Hey there Kylie! I hope you're doing fine. I'm happy to see that you're such a true friend. A friend in need is a friend indeed. I'm glad your friend is going for an IVF. I hope she has chosen a well-reputed clinic. I'll share my success story with you. I had 3 MCs in 2 years.Life was devastating. I had been so weak and very depressed. I had nearly given up. My husband asked me to try the IVF. I was convinced as I was desperate for a baby. I chose Biotexcom for my process. They have a high success rate and they guarantee you success or your money is returned. I conceived just after my first cycle. And today I have a year old son. Life is good again. I wish her Luck! May she has a wonderful pregnancy.

kylie 03-28-2018 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by justicejay (Post 12217772)
Hey there Kylie! I hope you're doing fine. I'm happy to see that you're such a true friend. A friend in need is a friend indeed. I'm glad your friend is going for an IVF. I hope she has chosen a well-reputed clinic. I'll share my success story with you. I had 3 MCs in 2 years.Life was devastating. I had been so weak and very depressed. I had nearly given up. My husband asked me to try the IVF. I was convinced as I was desperate for a baby. I chose Biotexcom for my process. They have a high success rate and they guarantee you success or your money is returned. I conceived just after my first cycle. And today I have a year old son. Life is good again. I wish her Luck! May she has a wonderful pregnancy.

Hey. Thank you for your kind words. She has chosen a clinic in Ukraine for her procedure. She will be flying there soon. I'm glad things worked out for you. Thank you for your prayers. You are amazing.

ella232 03-28-2018 09:37 AM

Hi! Your concern is right and I tell you something there's nothing to be scared of keeping yourself calm and follow the procedure just right and it will be a successful attempt. First, if you use your own eggs, hormones will be given to stimulate egg production, while preventing ovulation until the desired time. Your estrogen levels will be monitored over several days and also vaginal ultrasound is used to monitor the growth, size and number of developing ovarian follicles and then there comes the process of egg retrieval if it is successful and on time there won't be much problem afterward, then fertilization in growth medium well the most important thing is the health of surrogate you choose, her blood tests and overall health condition and after transfer of embryo if she's well monitored by a doctor to make sure medication levels and effects are appropriate and also have additional ultrasounds to show if implantation occurred she'll be shifted from fertility clinic to OB/GYN and from there everything will hopefully go well after her regular checkups and better health routine.

RitaSands 03-29-2018 06:12 AM

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Originally Posted by kylie (Post 12217768)
Hey everyone. So my friend's first IVF cycle is starting next month. She is very nervous at the moment. It would mean a lot to us if you share your successful IVF stories. They will make her feel better about this. Thank you so much. Your prayers will be appreciated too.

Hi Kylie! Well, that's really a great try to go with. I wish her all the best! I hope she conceives a child one way or another...I'm also undergoing my first attempt in the first week of June at a center of repro in Ukraine. So, yeah! I know it makes you nervous and tense...But, still, it's really worth. I've seen many women conceiving through this way. So, yes! There is hope here. My prayers and best wishes are with her. STay blessed you both. Please keep us updated on her story. I'd love to hear success sooner. xx

caroline1975 03-29-2018 06:35 AM

Today when people are selfish, it is very difficult to think of a friend that can be really helpful. You are doing a great job for your friend. She is in need of support and you are collecting maximum information for her. I hope that you will gather all the essential info on IVF that can be helpful for her in recovering from her fears and apprehensions. Actually, your friend is scared because she is not aware of the truth behind IVF. For her, it appears that it is merely some kind of surgery or a medical procedure involving serious processes. This thing has to be removed. You can see a number of videos coming up every day on the YouTube that have enough information regarding IVF processes. In simple words, it is a process in which the fertilization does not take place in a normal manner. Instead, it all happens outside the motherly womb. Once the process of fertilization completes, it is followed by the normal pregnancy procedure. In case she is having some kind of problem with her eggs, she can get the assistance from an egg donor too. I hope together you both will win the war against infertility. At this time she wants someone to hold her hand. If she gets the love and affection she will overcome all the fears. Wishing you all the best in life.

kylie 03-29-2018 09:19 AM

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Originally Posted by RitaSands (Post 12217828)
Hi Kylie! Well, that's really a great try to go with. I wish her all the best! I hope she conceives a child one way or another...I'm also undergoing my first attempt in the first week of June at a center of repro in Ukraine. So, yeah! I know it makes you nervous and tense...But, still, it's really worth. I've seen many women conceiving through this way. So, yes! There is hope here. My prayers and best wishes are with her. STay blessed you both. Please keep us updated on her story. I'd love to hear success sooner. xx

Hey, Rita. This is great news. She is going to fly to Ukraine next month for her procedure. This is so cool. You guys can be IVF buddies. Good luck to you for your procedure though. Thanks a lot for telling us about it.

ella232 03-29-2018 09:30 AM

Hello there! I hope you are doing fine. Surrogacy is an incredible procedure. You shouldn't stress about it. I got married in 2009. I have had three miscarriages since then. I had lost all hope to become a mother. Then I was told about a Ukraine based clinic by a former colleague. They informed us about surrogacy. We were reluctant in the beginning. Nevertheless, we took our chances. Now I am blessed with a beautiful baby boy. I wish that everyone gets blessed with children. Best of luck. Cheers

diamond 03-29-2018 12:05 PM

Hey, it felt good to hear about your friend. Tell her not to stress over it. Stress ruins such treatments. She needs to be completely relaxed about it. Only this way it will go successfully. I am sure everything will go fine for her. Keep us updated regarding the whole treatment. xx

kylie 03-30-2018 06:21 AM

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Originally Posted by ella232 (Post 12217842)
Hello there! I hope you are doing fine. Surrogacy is an incredible procedure. You shouldn't stress about it. I got married in 2009. I have had three miscarriages since then. I had lost all hope to become a mother. Then I was told about a Ukraine based clinic by a former colleague. They informed us about surrogacy. We were reluctant in the beginning. Nevertheless, we took our chances. Now I am blessed with a beautiful baby boy. I wish that everyone gets blessed with children. Best of luck. Cheers

Hey, Ella. Congratulations to you. I had my son through surrogacy too. That too from Ukraine. This is no coincidence. The clinic there is just so good that everyone visits them for their infertility treatments. I'm taking my friend there for her IVF procedure as well. Wish us luck.

lauren 03-30-2018 07:21 AM

Your worry is correct and I disclose to you something there's not something to be frightened of keeping yourself quiet and take the technique without flaw and it will be a fruitful endeavor. In the first place, in the event that you utilize your own eggs, hormones will be given to invigorate egg creation, while avoiding ovulation until the coveted time. Your estrogen levels will be observed more than a few days and furthermore vaginal ultrasound is utilized to screen the development, size and number of creating ovarian follicles and after that there comes the procedure of egg recovery on the off chance that it is fruitful and on time there won't be many issues a while later, at that point treatment in development medium well the most imperative thing is the soundness of surrogate you pick, her blood tests and general wellbeing condition and after exchange of fetus if she's very much observed by a specialist to ensure prescription levels and impacts are suitable and furthermore have extra ultrasounds to appear if implantation happened she'll be moved from ripeness facility to OB/GYN and from that point everything will ideally go well after her normal checkups and better wellbeing schedule.

Rhonda492 03-30-2018 11:50 AM

Hi! I hope your friend is happy going for this. I know that IVF is done after a lot of TTC. I also understand that failed attempts at TTC might have put her down. But it's great that she's up and ready to go. It's great to see that so many women here support us. I am also infertile. I didn't have as much support because I didn't share my stories. Now that I do, I see it really helps. It's okay for your friend to be nervous. Just make sure she takes proper medication before her IVF. Where is she getting it done, though? I was opting for IVF but then had a hysterectomy. Then I had surrogacy to have my baby. These methods do wonders to change our lives for the better. I would love to hear her updates!

moms_22 03-30-2018 10:22 PM

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Originally Posted by kylie (Post 12217768)
Hey everyone. So my friend's first IVF cycle is starting next month. She is very nervous at the moment. It would mean a lot to us if you share your successful IVF stories. They will make her feel better about this. Thank you so much. Your prayers will be appreciated too.

Hey Kylie!. To begin my husband and I was TTC for 5 ½ years before our prosperity. Our unique analysis was my significant other was conceived without vas deferens (the tubes that vehicle port sperm to in the long run turn out). We initially went to 3 urologists before somebody made this revelation. It was evident now the best way to wind up pregnant was for my husband other to have a task to separate sperm and for me to experience IVF. Since we were youthful the RE felt this was an idiot-proof case. My first IVF we exchanged 3 embies and progressed toward becoming pg, however later m/c at 9weeks. This was crushing to both my better half and I. I fell into a profound misery and never figured I would discover the fearlessness to proceed with another cycle. With the assistance of such huge numbers of ladies on this bb, I discovered the plan to proceed. I had 4 embies solidified thus 3 months after the m/c were completed a FET set back every one of the 4 pg tests was negative. This was miserable for me however unquestionably not an indistinguishable feeling from the m/c still I had to want to do another new IVF thus 3 months after the fact I did another cycle. Tragically my recovery was done on 9/11/01 and since I live in NY this was not a decent time to be in a clinic, so I have surged out and unfortunately, that cycle was negative also. So I assumed that cycle never had a possibility because of the conditions that day. Regardless I stayed confident and we had 3 solidified embies which were exchanged 2 months after the fact and that was likewise negative. I began to do some examination to attempt to make sense of what else I could do to upgrade the shot of my next crisp cycle being a win. I had inquired as to whether I ought to be tried for resistant clutters and he said no, I am youthful and I will get pg it might take two or three cycles he likewise continued demanding it was my spouses' sperm that was bad and recommended I utilize giver sperm. Considering IVF is an extremely costly fiscally and in addition an enthusiastic procedure I needed to give myself an ideal possibility of being effective in my next cycle. I did my third new cycle which was the most exceedingly bad concerning eggs created and prepared. The RE considered my age in charge of this negative, remember I was just 30. I chose to research and converse with other ladies that as of late end up effective after numerous negative.
Here is some guidance I offer any individual who is battling with barrenness as I did. Stay positive through all the high points and low points. Obviously, lament your misfortunes and negatives, yet never a free sight of your objective. For me, in the event that I couldn't manage the cost of out of pocket, I changed employment that offered IVF protection scope. Do your own exploration on the off chance that you need something sufficiently terrible you need to take the necessary steps yourself. I tuned in to my gut that the principal RE did not know enough about a safety issue so get a moment sentiment. For me removing a long break from fruitlessness drugs benefited me. It gave personal time to clear my psyche and move forward with my eighth cycle. Obviously being a piece of care groups truly is vital for your psychological prosperity. Above all else, I must pressure it as much as possible staying positive, positive and positive.
I want you to enjoy all that life has to offer kindly don't falter to post me on the off chance that you have any inquiries.

kylie 03-31-2018 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by caroline1975 (Post 12217830)
Today when people are selfish, it is very difficult to think of a friend that can be really helpful. You are doing a great job for your friend. She is in need of support and you are collecting maximum information for her. I hope that you will gather all the essential info on IVF that can be helpful for her in recovering from her fears and apprehensions. Actually, your friend is scared because she is not aware of the truth behind IVF. For her, it appears that it is merely some kind of surgery or a medical procedure involving serious processes. This thing has to be removed. You can see a number of videos coming up every day on the YouTube that have enough information regarding IVF processes. In simple words, it is a process in which the fertilization does not take place in a normal manner. Instead, it all happens outside the motherly womb. Once the process of fertilization completes, it is followed by the normal pregnancy procedure. In case she is having some kind of problem with her eggs, she can get the assistance from an egg donor too. I hope together you both will win the war against infertility. At this time she wants someone to hold her hand. If she gets the love and affection she will overcome all the fears. Wishing you all the best in life.

Hello. Thank you so much for such an informative comment. It helped a lot. It is nice to know that people really do care out there. My friend is feeling so much better about this whole thing now. Hopefully, it will go well for her. Thanks again.

monika 03-31-2018 10:35 AM

Hey, Kylie, you should tell your friend to not worry. Things will definitely go perfectly fine. The major thing she should know is to not be stressed.Stay positive and wait for the things to happen. Although I am not going for IVF I still meet a lot of people at the clinic who are going through this process. They tell me a good clinic can make a lot of difference. As the doctors here are very careful about the process from every small to the big step. So best of luck to her and hoping the very best for her.

Hillgreen105r 04-01-2018 09:15 PM

Hi there.Happy to know about the friend.Good to know about her, that she had to go through the IVF process.It is the nice and adorable feeling in every woman life when holding their baby.Children are blessing and precious gift too from God.Nothing will compare to take place this blessing.It's a great process, Last year my best friend had this in Ukraine.Where she got success in her first attempt.She is so happy now to live with her cute baby boy.I am sending your friend great strength and prayers.I hope she is doing great and have a positive success.Best wishes to her.Think positive and it will happen.Keep trying with better luck.Stay healthy and happy.

kylie 04-02-2018 11:19 AM

Hi. Thank you so much for all the help, guys. I feel so overwhelmed with your response. you people really help and care a lot. My friend feels better about this now. This was really helpful. Love you all.

kylie 11-23-2018 12:28 AM

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Originally Posted by monika (Post 12217924)
Hey, Kylie, you should tell your friend to not worry. Things will definitely go perfectly fine. The major thing she should know is to not be stressed. Stay positive and wait for the things to happen. Although I am not going for IVF I still meet a lot of people at the clinic who are going through this process. They tell me a good clinic can make a lot of difference. As the doctors here are very careful about the process from every small to the big step. So best of luck to her and hoping the very best for her.

Hello. Thanks for the comment. I completely agree with you. Stress plays a huge role here. I really wanted her to be less stressed before her transfer. But she just can't help it sometimes. We chose a great clinic for her, there is no doubt in that. I was their previous client. My experience was really good. I wanted her to be in good hands just like I was.

Susie 12-03-2018 08:02 AM

Exciting times for her! Tell her to relax, because getting anxious won't help her. I was also nervous, but I'm glad I did not have to wait. It happened for me in the first attempt. So lucky, I know! I hope she gets to experience this happiness. Good luck to her.

Alena 12-06-2018 08:09 AM

Hi, Kylie! This is really positive. I'm happy for your friend. Tell her to chill out. I'm sure the doctors have suggested it because they think it's a good option for her. She'll have to be patient. It doesn't necessarily work out in the initial cycles. It can take a few attempts. Took me three! Just make sure she doesn't lose hope. Good luck to her. I genuinely hope she doesn't wait a lot. It can be really hard. The two-week wait is awful! But good things come to those who wait! xx


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