Hi mothers,
It is a strange world we live in, today. We give birth to our kids thinking they will love us as much as we do, and, we only end up being avoided and ignored by them. Especially with the teenage kids, they will give you no importance as soon as they move into their adolescent age. Their angry mood, blunt answers, hurting words can all make you cringe down and cry your heart out. Their teenage tactics can really have a doubt on who you raised, what are the lessons that you taught him. But the reality is they are just 10 or 15 years old kids, no lesson in a span of 15 years in enough to make a home in their minds. moreover, their minds are controlled by the hormonal changes and extra peer pressure. They wanna do and follow what is the trend of today. Being nice dudes and entertaining everyone and anyone. This is the time in the life of a parent when they feel so bad about their decision of wanting a baby on first place. Not all the kids remain same through out their lives, some come back realizing the true worth of being blessed with parents. It does take time, because of the peer pressure, being in a school followed by the infamous high school teenage phase when they feel nothing is smarter and wiser than who they are. This happens with almost every chile-parent relationship. This is a part of our lives and in everyone else's life. I do feel that the situation is a little worse today with all the technologically driven generation, but then again it is what their peer has made them. You can always choose to stay strict and control them but you also need to give them space and let them learn the ways of, life for and by themselves.