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post #1 of 24 (permalink) Old 08-22-2017, 05:39 AM Thread Starter
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Hi, I am Melisa and I am a 33-year-old woman who passed through the things which I am not capable of handling. Itís really hard and I really believe that I can face worst days of my life. Infertility really sucks. I have been trying hard every single time to get over the things and working real

Whatever I am going through to give gift my husband. I respect him a lot and I have been trying to conceive through the things which are not possible. I mean like I know it can be possible and I can have a baby in my life.
I am just looking for some hope and love here. I believe I will make it through the test.
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Hi welcome friend. I am feeling so sorry for your infertility problem. You should not lose hope. You can defeat infertility problem in easy and effective way. I am here for you to solve your problem in easy way with latest medical research based treatment available in medical history. I am one of the lucky women who defeated infertility problem at age of 40. This is golden opportunity for me to help you on behalf of my personal life experience to overcome infertility problem. You should not this opportunity in your life to take maximum benefit from my life experience.
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Hi, I am Melisa and I am a 33-year-old woman who passed through the things which I am not capable of handling. Itís really hard and I really believe that I can face worst days of my life. Infertility really sucks. I have been trying hard every single time to get over the things and working real

Whatever I am going through to give gift my husband. I respect him a lot and I have been trying to conceive through the things which are not possible. I mean like I know it can be possible and I can have a baby in my life.
I am just looking for some hope and love here. I believe I will make it through the test.

you can overcome infertility depression. But, you need to be honest with yourself and know when to seek help..
My friends joined a support group - did talk therapy, couples counseling (because it was impacting my husband), learned about nutrition, acupuncture, prenatal yoga and meditation - all techniques that could use to manage depression and stress ....
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Hi Melisa:

Please do not worry. You have many doors kept opened for the conception. Since you are in 33, there are still more chances to get conceived. Infertility has become the most common problem in the society. Many hospitals are providing excellent treatments. First of all I would like to know what is your problem behind infertility. Can you able to ovulate monthly? Do you have regular coitus with husband? Did you undergo any treatment for the infertility?

If you are able to produce eggs, and problem with fertilization, then you can try IVF, In Vitro Fertilization. In this method, egg is fertilized with sperm in the lab and implanted in the uterus. If you have problem in ovulation, then you can adapt surrogacy where healthy woman will lend her ova and still the baby birth she will carry the child. In case, you can carry the baby only, you can lend ova and experience pregnancy yourself which is called gestational surrogacy. In this procedure, the baby grows in your uterus but the ova are borrowed. You may discuss with your husband regarding the options and meet your gynecologist ASP. All the best.
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Hello Melisa,

I am so sorry to read that you have faced infertility problem. But nowdays there are so many options to conceive ranging from In Vitro Fertilization to surogacy and so on. Insted of dribing yourself into depression and frustrating thoughts, research this topic more. There are so many clinics that can actually help you, even with pocket-wise options. Your depression will not give positive results! If you really want a child you have to be strong and keep fighting. I hope your husband supports you, its the most important. By the way, I knew a few clinics in Eastern Europe and Russia. Let me know if you need further info.
Keep your nose up!
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I can empathize with you. I know all these feelings too well. I often felt incomplete and undeserving of my husband. All because of infertility. If we had not gone for surrogacy, I'd still be feeling like that. Having a child is important when the couple wants one. Otherwise, there are insecurities and distances.
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Kindly don't stress. You have numerous entryways kept opened for the origination. Inferthas turned into the most well-known issue in the general public. Numerous clinics are giving great medications. Above all else, I might want to comprehend what is your concern behind barrenness. In IVF technique, the egg is treated with sperm in the lab and embedded in the uterus. In the event that you have an issue with ovulation, at that point, you can adjust surrogacy where a solid lady will loan her ova and still the infant birth she will convey the kid. On the off chance that, you can convey the infant no one but, you can loan ova and encounter pregnancy yourself which is called gestational surrogacy. In this technique, the child develops in your uterus yet the ova are acquired. Consult good consultant and wish you a good luck.
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Kindly don't stress. You still have the courage to fight. Since you are in 33, there are still more opportunities to get considered. Infertility has turned into the most widely recognized issue in the general public. Numerous doctor's facilities are giving great medications. I might want to recognize what is your concern with infertility. Would you be able to ready to ovulate month to month? Do you have consistent copulation with the spouse? Did you experience any treatment for childlessness? In the event that you can deliver eggs, an issue with preparation, at that point you can attempt IVF, In Vitro Fertilization. In this technique, the egg is treated with sperm in the lab and embedded in the uterus. On the off chance that you have an issue with ovulation, at that point you can adjust surrogacy where a solid lady will loan her ova and still the infant birth she will deliver the youngster. On the off chance that, you can convey the infant no one but, you can loan ova and encounter pregnancy yourself which is called gestational surrogacy. In this method, the child develops in your uterus yet the ova are acquired. You may talk about with your DH in regards to the choices and meet your gynecologist ASP. All the best.
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post #9 of 24 (permalink) Old 04-12-2018, 11:57 AM
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Hey, Melisa, you sound so depressing it honestly will be alright don't worry just pray. I am sure something better is waiting for you and when the right time comes it will also come. Infertility is definitely one of the worst things that one could encounter and I hope that no one gets to go through this. I myself am in this phase of life as I have been trying for so long, however, nothing is working out. I have even tried the medication but they also didn't work out for me. My visit to a specialist was definitely one of the bittersweet journies as although I finally got the answer to my questions but I probably wasn't ready to hear to them. The specialist basically told me the reasons for as to why was I having a difficulty in conceiving naturally. I have a hormonal imbalance as my AMH levels are very low and my FSH levels are very high this meant I had a poor ovarian reserve. Anyways, I then researched on this complication and about the choices that were available to me. Assisted conceptions were the only solution and I was keen to move forward towards them. IVF was one of my first preference and I really was hoping it will work for me. However, recently I visited this clinic where I was told that the treatment will most likely disappoint me. Now, I am being suggested surrogacy but honestly, I am not sure about it but let's see because my DH really wants us to go for it. I hope your tests come out to be clear and things go well as it can honestly be so hard otherwise. Wishing you a best of luck and sending positivity your way.
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Stressing over things isn't the solution. You need to put an effort into making your dream successful. If your infertility is unexplained then try going for IVF. Don't let infertility take over your life. There are many ways of having a baby. Don't lose hope, please. Be positive!
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Yes, you are right. Infertility really sucks. It has damaged many innocent peopleís life. They become culprit by the society just because in past there was no cure for it. Nowadays science has introduced wonderful treatments like surrogacy. In your situation surrogacy will be suitable. It's the best treatment. There is a clinic in Europe. They are dealing with it in the best way. Their treatment is less expensive. Their success rate is very higher. You should visit them. Trust me once you opt it you won't regret your decision. I wish you become a mother soon. My best wishes are with you
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Hello, Melisa. I hope you're alright. Please don't lose the faith. I can understand your situation. Trust me, I know what you're feeling. Don't worry about all this. Things will get better for you. Infertility is a huge issue. It can be a real testing time. But, keep the faith. Assisted conception is definitely going to help you, out. Just make sure you choose the right clinic. Good luck to you on this journey. I hope it's short and successful. You can do this!
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Hey, Melisa. I hope you're doing alright. I can understand your situation. Don't lose hope okay? I'm certain things will get better for you. I know, it's a difficult time. But, have faith in God. And, keep trying!
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Stay strong dear! you're on the right way! Don't lose your hope. I'm also having my process later this month abroad at a center in Kiev. So, yes! Can relate things! Still, had really bad response last week from Lotus, they didn't support us. So, yeah! Still optimistic! Best wishes to you too. Click here to enlarge
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Hello, Melisa. I hope you're okay. I just want to offer you a different perspective. Just, remember that you are really brave. People are stupid enough to not look for help and live with their infertility. You are definitely different. You can do this, honey. I'm really certain, it'll happen for you. Just don't give up. Assisted conception is really common. You should opt for it. There are a lot of methods. There is no such thing as permanent infertility anymore. I'm sure you'll find a solution. Good luck!
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Hi there, Melisa! I deeply empathize with you, dear. I know life gives a lot of tests to pass and we have to ace them. I know exactly what you're going through. I've been through this time and I know how traumatizing this all is. But hey? You have to be strong and don't lose hope. Infertility is a terrible thing to suffer from but now there are a lot of treatments for it. Assisted conception is trending nowadays so research about it. Thanks to modernization that life is easy now. I've been declared infertile because of my endometriosis, it's been a nightmare, truly. I went through an IVF treatment twice and then got pregnant. You can be successful, provided that you get your procedure done by a good clinic. My clinic was in Ukraine; they have the most affordable packages. I wish your life is easy and fruitful again soon. Lots of love and prayers for you!
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Hey melisa, I'm sorry about your infertility. infertility is a curse. Being not able to conceive is very frustrating condition for anyone. You just need to be relax. Nowadays there are many treatment options available with the condition to become biological parent. One of them is surrogacy. Surrogacy is a miracle. It is a quite expensive. But it is worth it. It is hassle free and in the end you can have your own biological child. And its plus point of surrogacy is that the child will be generally linked to you. You would be able to experience all the child's stages as a normal pregnancy. I suggest you to go for it. Good luck for your future. i hope I was able to help.
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Hello Melisa,

I am so sorry to read that you have faced infertility problem. But nowdays there are so many options to conceive ranging from In Vitro Fertilization to surogacy and so on. Insted of dribing yourself into depression and frustrating thoughts, research this topic more. There are so many clinics that can actually help you, even with pocket-wise options. Your depression will not give positive results! If you really want a child you have to be strong and keep fighting. I hope your husband supports you, its the most important. By the way, I knew a few clinics in Eastern Europe and Russia. Let me know if you need further info.
Keep your nose up!
Hey There, Im sure you are fine. Just came across your comment. I second you that there are better treatments now. Infertility is not uncurable at all. You have said it right that instead of thrusting yourself into depression. One must research some good clinics out there. There is the number of affordable clinics in Ukraine doing a great job and helping people out. I had surrogacy from Ukraine after diagnosed that I'm infertile. It was hard for me too, But everything changed after I visited that clinic. I talked about the same clinic in these forums and was told about their good reputation. A lot of people have been visiting here lately. And they had a successful treatment. I suggest people to go for that clinic now.
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People wake up. Why people donít share on this forum. I have seen previous posts on this forum. They all are so good. But donít know why people have stopped to post here. Ok, let's start with it. Introduce yourself and share your story as well as.
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Hello Melissa dear. I hope that everything is just great for you. Sure you are going through a lot. You just have to be calm in this situation. I also was trying to conceive. Every time I did it resulted in a miscarriage. So, I decided to go for the surrogacy treatment. I suggest that if conceiving is taking so much time. Then you should think of going off taking other decision. You should consult the clinic which is the best in Europe. They will give you the best advice. Also, they will answer any questions which arise in your head. I hope that everything goes fine for you. Best of luck dear for the future. Good luck.
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