This is so upsetting. I can't believe that a clinic can be this careless. They have a responsibility towards the patients. I am so sorry for your sister in law. I personally think she should opt for surrogacy. Traditional adoption costs you the same. However, through surrogacy, the child will be hers at least. The clinic I am visiting is in Europe, I opted for them after a lot of research. I didn't want there to be a bad experience. Surrogacy is a lengthy process and you want the experience to be good. I think you should research it. They have a high success rate which for me mattered a lot. I love how well-organized they are. They make sure there is no error made and double check everything with us. So far everything has been going smoothly.