It is very nice to have you on this forum. I hope that you are doing fine. How long have you been TTC? You seem like very eager to become a mommy. I am sure that you will get to be one, one day. Both of the treatments are very good. Through IVF, you will have to carry the baby. Through Surrogacy, someone else will carry the baby for you. If you are still young, you should first try IVF. It is an effective treatment. It turns out to be successful most of the time. Try to get it done from a nice clinic, Amature doctors can really mess things up. Plus, you also don't want to waste your money. I went to Ukraine for holidays, I got to meet so many people there from my state. All of them were there for their fertility treatments. I dug some information about the clinic and went there. I really loved the place. I have kinda made up my mind about going there for my treatment as they offer surrogacy too. Try to look for a nice place and I am sure you will get the needed help.