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post #41 of 47 (permalink) Old 01-02-2004, 06:19 PM
 
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Intenshn. Honey. Twink is a L/D nurse. She's not ignorant. You on the other hand .... well, let's not go there. She is saying that a multiple birth VBAC is not a good idea. And she's right. She's not talking about VBACS after a multiple birth.
Not to get into too much detail here, since the information is readily available in the medical journals; however, I insist that a VBAC multiple birth is no more dangerous than a singleton VBAC birth. Just becuz Twink is an L/D nurse does not make her the authority on the national standard of method of childbirth. I do not want to debate this here because this is a support thread. I support Meg's doctor's choice becuz her babies are breech - as long as they stay in that position when she goes into labor, most doctors cannot handle that situation, and they are safer being born via selective surgery.

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Think about it. The more that the uterus is stretched out the more the old scar is at risk.

It is a moot point since her babies are breech. It is not a smart idea to try to ,essentially a primip, with an unproven pelvis and a breech baby.

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Intenshin, debate away here. Yes it's a support forum, but it doesn't mean we can't have a good healthy debate. Debating however would not include critizing a specific poster's choice-that is to all, not just Int.

I am with all about the VBAC with a multiple birth, it is more dangerous, and I am one who fought having a section with my 4th. Obviously a uterus that is stretched to capacity is under a lot more pressure and more weakened.

I'm still really shocked by the fact that you were induced at 35 1/2 weeks b/c of the parents wishes, was there anything else happening, any other reasons that you should've given birth at that time?

And Elizabeth Noble's book is a VERY good one, we have it linked in the info thread at the top.

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I insist that a VBAC multiple birth is no more dangerous than a singleton VBAC birth.
I too have heard this, however, each womans choice of birth should be between her and her doctor. Being that I didn't have a c-section with my first, I am not as informed on VBAC because it wasn't something I was faced with. I did know however that the potential of a c-section was high being pg with twins but not with the first but the second twin. I got lucky( a little determination was in there too) and did both vaginally the first being head down and an inversion with the second. I feel great that I beat the odds, but I had a super awesome ob who was willing to let me try to do a vaginal delivery instead of just scheduling me for a c-section, as is often times done with twins, even if they haven't had c-sections before. The point being that he gave me the choice, he let me make the decison that was right for me. I think that is what is important to realize. If someone doesn't want to attempt a VBAC then that is thier choice, it is the right choice for them.
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I had my twins at 36 wks. I had an emergency c-section as both were in distress and my blood pressure was dangerously high. Also both were breech and sitting on my hip bones. If I get pregnant again I definately want to try VBAC
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I went into labor at 34 weeks, and ended up with a c-section.
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I had my twins at 36 wks. I had an emergency c-section as both were in distress and my blood pressure was dangerously high. Also both were breech and sitting on my hip bones. If I get pregnant again I definately want to try VBAC
And that is a textbook case as to why C-sections were invented. I am happy to hear that your children were okay, and that you want to try a VBAC next time.

Someone asked me why I was induced with my triplets. I wasn't induced....I never felt a labor pain or contraction during the whole pregnancy. The parents scheduled a planned C-section because they personally were afraid of childbirth. Had I to do it over again, I don't know if I would've put my foot down and said no, even knowing what I now know about how difficult it is to get an OB doctor to "let" me do a VBAC. When you are carrying someone else's babies, a part of you needs to let the parents make major decisions like that. I do believe in women having choices in childbirth. That's what's lacking unfortunately in most cases.

Is there a danger of an overstretched uterus in multiple pregnancy? Of course! That's what can cause pre-mature labor and birth. I suppose some women are so stretched they can't even feel if they are having contractions...that's what the "experts" told me anyway when I was pregnant with mine. Luckily, I studied very thoroughly everything I could get my hands on that would clue me in on what signs to look for, and what the odds were for or against me. My ex husband worked in a hospital, and I had access to the medical journals. I also bought every book I could find on multiple pregnancy, read every magazine article on the film strips at the public library, and subscribed to numerous newsletters. I also talked to other people who had triplet pregnancies to learn their stories, and consulted with two different midwives who had experience with multiple pregnancy and births. I was a walking wealth of knowledge!

During my C-section, my OB confirmed that my uterus never stretched to capacity..even saying that a 4th baby would've fit nicely beside the other 3. After my 1st VBAC went smoothly, the 2nd VBAC should've been a breeze to pass off to the medical community....because I had a proven uterus, and proven VBAC. Not so however I found....I had to fight like hell to get my 2nd VBAC.

A stretched uterus is not the culprit when it comes to the dangers of a weak C-section scar, and certainly not in the top 3 when it comes to reasons for rupture. The number one reason for rupture is pitocin induction....and the 2nd reason is a lousy stitch job in the first place. The body will heal. That's what it's meant to do.

Yes, childbirth is a choice. But make sure you know the reasons for your choices. Be informed.
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