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post #1 of 24 (permalink) Old 12-23-2014, 10:27 PM Thread Starter
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Sex toys for teens?

In a private forum Im in, a father has a quandary. His 12 year old daughter wants a vibrator. He feels a bit uncomfortable in giving her this, and her mother (his ex wife), is very religious and does not approve of masturbation.

What advice would you give him?
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Get her a "massager." What she does with it is her own damn business.

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Like this, maybe: http://www.amazon.com/Shibari-10-spe...404678&sr=1-26

Not this: http://www.amazon.com/California-Exo...abbit+massager

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I'd be concerned about possible sexual abuse. 12 is really young to be sexually confident enough to verbally express the desire for a masturbation aid to a parent.
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I'd be concerned about possible sexual abuse. 12 is really young to be sexually confident enough to verbally express the desire for a masturbation aid to a parent.
Yep. Red flags all around. The mom is super religious but the dad is so cool that the 12yr old has asked him for a sex toy? No. Troll or something is up.
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Red flags all over. A father should not be buying a sex toy for his 12yo. Just WTF.


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I vote troll. At least I hope so.
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That sounds like a gross fetishy post. I hope it's fake.


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That sounds like a gross fetishy post. I hope it's fake.
Yes, my bullshit meter is going off on this one. Hopefully bullshit anyway
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Seriously juniper wtf Click here to enlarge I keep coming back to this. Is this a joke? Is a regular poster? This is not right.
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Regular poster, and not a troll.

This is what freaks me out. Most of the responses have been back patting about how awesome it is that she's so secure with herself and her relationship with her dad that she felt comfortable asking this. Also, nearly all responders seemed to think it was a super idea for him to help her acquire one. I felt like that was not a good idea, and wondered if I'm just an old prude.

Judging by the SM response, I am NOT crazy old fashioned.
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It would be a frosty freakin Friday before I'd give a sex toy to my adult daughters. Let alone a 12 year old. Totally inappropriate, and I don't care if that makes me a prude.
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It would be a frosty freakin Friday before I'd give a sex toy to my adult daughters. Let alone a 12 year old. Totally inappropriate, and I don't care if that makes me a prude.

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I just can't even. I just cannot imagine that this girl has not been abused. I would not ask my dad (or mom or sister) for a vibrator now. 12? She is fucking 12, not a teen. A fucking pre-teen. No. This is some shady shit.
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That's just fucking gross, and I'm not a prude.

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that is super weird, my 12 year old doesnt even know what a vibrator is.
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