Join Date: May 2002
Location: like Siberia, but with better restaurants
Things I can't stand (and I've gotten more intolerant to bras over the years, not less): hooks in the back. Other things I can't stand: pulling on most sports bras.
Anyway, I feel like there's a lot more pressure to never ever EVER let the outline of your nipples show through clothing EVER than there was when I was younger, which is why almost all bras are now padded. It's probably largely of a piece with the idea that all ladies must be fully hairless from the neck down.
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace. Where there is hatred, let me sow love; where there is injury, pardon; where there is doubt, faith; where there is despair, hope; where there is darkness, light; and where there is sadness, joy.