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post #1 of 30 (permalink) Old 06-27-2018, 09:31 AM Thread Starter
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Hello everyone! This is darcy writing. I am 30 years old. I live in Montpellier. I am using this form to share my infertility experience. I got married in the November of 2011. My husband also lived in the same city, Montpellier. We both used to work for a private firm. We had literally the best time together. After year, we decided to conceive a baby, We thought I’d quit my job for the time being. So we started trying. I thought everything would just go smooth and I’d get pregnant. For our first attempt, I didn’t get pregnant. We thought maybe this was normal. So we gave it some more attempts later but nothing happened. We had to take us to a doctor apparently. And so we did. The doctors took some tests and told me that medications would get me a successful pregnancy. I learned that I was basically being treated with infertility . My husband had asked the doctor not to tell me this news. Anyways, we followed the doctors. The procedure was much painful and terrible. The medications would sometimes left me crying. But I was content that , the baby is worth this pain. Yes, you guessed right, igot pregnant.  We are expecting a baby in 5 weeks.
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post #2 of 30 (permalink) Old 06-27-2018, 12:57 PM
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Wow, this is such a beautiful story. I thought the end would be a saddening one. But to my surprise, it was a very happy one. This is so great. I am very happy for you. Congratulations to you on your pregnancy. I hope the new arrival comes healthily. Wish you guys all the best. Stay strong always. Lots of love for you.
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Hi there, Darcy! It's so nice to read your success story, dear. It really satisfies my inner self when I see someone getting out of infertility successfully. I'm so happy for you. Your post will definitely motivate the people reading it. Most of the people on this forum are suffering from infertility. They find it very hard to accept the fact that they're infertile and won't be easily able to conceive a child. Thanks to modernization that there's still hope left for people like us. You're lucky that you came out of it in time. It actually was a good decision to go to the doctor at an early stage. Your husband definitely is a good partner. Many many heartiest congratulations to you! May your baby brings happiness to you. You must be so excited. Best wishes!
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Oh, Congratulations to you. This is such a good news. You must be excited, yeah? Not much time to hold your baby in your arms. I hope you are having a safe pregnancy. Wish you a good luck. Keep us updated.
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I hope you are doing good. I feel so happy to read this. It is really a motivation for all. People are struggling can get an inspiration from this. One must always stay strong. Miracles do happen. One must stay positive.
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post #6 of 30 (permalink) Old 06-28-2018, 04:45 AM
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This is an amazing post. So glad to read this. I am happy to see such a nice end. And that's really great. Congratulations to you on your pregnancy. I hope the new arrival comes healthily. Wish you guys all the best. Stay strong and stay happy.
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This is such a beautiful post. I am so happy that I came across this. Congratulations to you on your pregnancy. I hope the new arrival comes safely. Wish you guys all the best. Stay strong and stay happy. Keep updating us.
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post #8 of 30 (permalink) Old 06-29-2018, 04:59 AM
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Hi there, that's great to know you're a fighter it's so inspirational to find a story like this. Thank you so much for sharing it with all of us, I have been fighting infertility issues for quite some time, I mean not nearly as some women here but it seems like forever to me because all I can ever think about is having a baby boy of my own. I'm overwhelmed with emotions right now. Congratulations on your baby. keep us updated and take care of yourself.
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post #9 of 30 (permalink) Old 06-29-2018, 05:53 AM
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Hey, I am so happy for you both. Congratulations on this great news. This must have been so exciting! I think it was really smart of your husband to behave in that manner. Infertility is a really tough journey to be on. I am glad it got over for you soon. I had a bit of a tragedy basically. The doctor we were visiting didn't even properly check us up. He just put me on mediation. Months passed by and nothing happened. After I think 7 months I decided to visit a fertility specialist who told us that my problem wasn't that simple. I was honestly shattered. I was diagnosed with a poor ovarian reserve with low amh. We are now moving forward with a fertility treatment hope it works out for us. Your post has definitely motivated us.
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It is great news. I am so happy for you. I hope that everyone will see this happiness one day. i am a mother. I got my baby through surrogacy. I am happy that I made a right decision on time. I had unexplained infertility. But now all my worries are gone. I am so happy.
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post #11 of 30 (permalink) Old 07-02-2018, 07:46 AM
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It is so motivating. I hope for the best now. I am 41. I am ttc for so long. Fro, past few years I am having IVF. But I am facing failure. I am so worried now. I hope for the best now. I am deciding to go for surrogacy. I hope everything will be fine now.
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post #12 of 30 (permalink) Old 07-02-2018, 09:11 PM
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hey Darcy!!! When I read your story I became a disappointment. I didn’t know what to say to you. more and more I read your story I become more familiar with your story. At the end when you said I am pregnant. I am so excited for you. congratulations dear. Go with this pregnancy successful. Take care of yourself.
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post #13 of 30 (permalink) Old 07-03-2018, 01:53 PM
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hi, hope so you are doing great. So happy to know about this. My friend was unable to conceive naturally. So she chose surrogacy. She lives in Europe. Europe has best clinics. They provide you with a very good environment. Now she is blessed with a baby girl. We just have to handle the situation calmly. And not lose hope. Better things are coming. Just waiting for the perfect moment. My best wishes for your future. Stay strong. So happy and excited for you. Lots of love dear.
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Hi there. Welcome to this forum. Hope you are doing well. Congratulations on the baby. You are right the pain is worth it. you stood brave and strong. Wish everything will be fine further. You must be very excited. Are you done with shopping and stuff?. Enjoy your bonding with the baby. Thank for sharing it with us. I hope more people will get motivated. Wish you luck. Keep us updated.
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Wow. This is amazing. This gives me hope too. Miracles do happen. I am also TTC for last three years. But, there is no luck. Anyways, Congratulations to you. I hope you have a safe pregnancy.
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Congratulations on your good news. I am so happy for you. You must be super excited, isn't it mom to be? You did get the reward for your struggle. I hope you now have a safe pregnancy. Take good care of yourself. Keep us updated.
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I just hope that you are doing well. Your news has made my day. The same case was with my friend as she was unable to conceive naturally. She was unable to conceive a child naturally. At such hard time, surrogacy benefited her. Europe is a surrogacy friendly state. Clinics there are offering their best in this regard. As surrogacy was prohibited in our state, she went to Europe for having surrogacy. The clinic she opted was well known. Many senior members on this forum have shared there success stories. Those posts inspired her too. They provided her with a sound surrogate. She was nice to her and corporate so much. Don't think so much and go there. Sending baby dust to you!
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Hi Darcy dear! Oh, my goodness. At first, I was about to cry. Later on, when I read you are expecting in 5 weeks. It makes me so happy and emotional. I am really glad that you didn't give up. Such a brave lady. You are the one who encourages other. Everything awaits time. You just need someone to help. A good treatment. If you have someone by your side to push you and encourage you, you can conquer anything. I had also gone through this phase. I am feeling really blessed to tell you that I am a mother now. Wish you all the very best. Sending you lot of good wishes. Take care dear. Keep us updated.
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WOW! That’s a good news! Last year my cousin sister also had her surrogacy procedure. I think it’s really worth trying if you don't have any other option left. She is now happy with her child. Anyway! Wish you all the best for good results. xx Stay blessed.
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Hey Darcy. How are you doing? Well, am feeling so sorry for you. I have read your story and its really heartbreaking. But I am glad that you are pregnant. This is such a big news. You guys would be very happy. Congratulation for getting pregnant. And in 5 weeks you are going to be a mother again. And you are going to feel those thousands of new feelings. Am really feeling so glad for you. No doubt, where there is will there is a way. Sending you lot of love for the upcoming baby.
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