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post #1 of 61 (permalink) Old 03-26-2018, 01:30 PM Thread Starter
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Hi everyone. I hope everyone is doing fine now. In a nutshell, I have been infertile for the past 9 years now. Life is hard. It is getting tough day by day. I had this one dream. The dream of holding my child. I wonder how that would feel. But it seems like it isn't in my fate. trying though. I am trying to find a solution. Adoption or surrogacy seems like the last option. It's very difficult to find a newborn via adoption. I would have gone for surrogacy but I am low on funds. It would be nice if someone shares their happy stories here of seeing their child for the first time. That would really make me happy.
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Hello there! I hope you are doing fine. Im so sorry to hear about your condition. I can understand that you are doing this for your husband. Well im a big advocate of IVF and surrogacy. Heres my story. It might give you hope. I got married in 2009. I have had two miscarriages since then. I had lost all hope to become a mother. Then I was told about this Ukraine based clinic. They later introduced us to surrogacy. My husband and I were reluctant in the beginning. Nevertheless, we took our chances. Now I am blessed with a beautiful baby boy. I pray that everyone gets blessed with children. Best of luck. Cheers!
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Hey there! I hope you're okay. I'm very sorry to hear about your infertility, dear. It is a very terrible thing. I know how you feel. I've been in the same boat so I understand you very well. Surrogacy is the best option for you. The baby is biologically yours, which is an essential factor. I had my surrogacy process from a repro center in Ukraine. It had the most satisfying procedure techniques. Very well educated doctors who were very cooperative. They provided me with the best services at very affordable prices. Even there VIP package wasn't theta expensive. If you want details, I'll love to share. Take care of yourself and do take a step for yourself now. Don't let infertility take over your life. Good Luck!
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I can't wait to hold my baby for the first time. I'm also infertile, by the way. But I'm going through surrogacy at BioTexCom. They are helping me to make my dream come true. You are right regarding the price. This service is still pretty expensive. I had to save some money to afford the surrogacy. But isn't it worth paying? I would pay all my money to get a baby. I'm sure you agree with me.
I'm really glad that I found the surrogacy option. I can't imagine my life without kids. But, as I'm single, it was really hard to make this decision. People think that a single woman can't raise the baby. This is wrong! I'm sure that I will become a great mom. And I'm really glad that I have a chance to get my biological baby without getting pregnant. It is a real miracle of modern medicine.
By the way, my sister is also infertile. She was against the surrogacy that's why she adopted a baby. What about this option? As far as I remember it doesn't cost that much. It takes more time than surrogacy. And the baby won't be genetically related to you. But, still, you will have a baby. You should take this option into an account. Go and visit some reproduction centers and adoption centers. Try to figure out all the details. Your dream should come true! Don't give up, dear. Good luck.
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Hey, sweety! I am so sorry to see you going through all this. It's very hard for you, I know. I am dealing with infertility too. I know how painful it is. Recently my friend had her baby. She chose surrogacy for this purpose. She couldn't conceive naturally too. She told me that her journey was great and exciting. And she felt really good to hold her baby in her hands. Just like you, I cannot afford high rates for this treatment. She told me that surrogacy in a clinic in Ukraine is very affordable. She advised me to visit there. I haven't gone there yet. I'm still researching. I think I'll reach a point soon. So, I would recommend you to do some research too. You'll get to know about the whole process. As well as the clinic which is good for this purpose. I hope things get fine at your end soon. Wish you good luck!
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post #6 of 61 (permalink) Old 03-28-2018, 04:08 AM
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Dear surrogacy is the best option.Whereas adoption is also a good option.
I am going for surrogacy because my husband wants a child of our own DNA and this is possible via Surrogacy.
At the age of 43 years old i'm married for second time.
I was married earlier and geting pregnant was not an easy task for me.
I had a number of complications while getting pregnant.
I conceived for three times but always resulted in miscarriage.
Surrogaccy is the best solution for the women who don't have any luck with babies.
My husband wants a baby from me and i told him everything regarding my pregnancy complications.
So i started looking for some method to have a baby for us.
BioTexCom clinic is the best clinic regarding surrogacy.
They cleared my confusions reagarding surrogacy.
They satisfied me and they told us they will find a surrogate for my baby.
They have a number of surrogates from their clinic as well.
A surrogate will go through proper testing to become a surrogate mother of my child.
Via online research i found that surrogacy is the best solution for us to have a baby.
So i contacted a number of clinics regarding pregnancy.
If someone here is raising a child via surrogacy process please share your experience with us.
Thanks in advance.
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post #7 of 61 (permalink) Old 03-28-2018, 04:25 AM
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Dear desperate mom, it is really hard to accept the reality of being infertile. You have mentioned the harsh truth of facing the pain of infertility. It is such a painful thing that I don't have words to console you. I was once the member of this infertility clubs. When the things were going out of hand, I picked up the option of choosing surrogacy as my option leading to motherhood. Today I feel honored to get my dream. If you are thinking of trying the surrogacy option then it is really great. You will not regret using this technique for your good. Your major concern is regarding the price of the process. If you think that the process is costing much more than your resources then I will suggest that you should consult the clinics in Ukraine. These clinics give the best facilities for assisted reproduction at very nominal rates. You will not regret going there. I hope that you will try to reach out the clinics. We will be waiting for your next post about your successful surrogacy.
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post #8 of 61 (permalink) Old 03-29-2018, 04:45 AM
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Hey there! I hope you're okay. I'm very sorry to hear about your infertility, dear. It is a very terrible thing. I know how you feel. I've been in the same boat so I understand you very well. Surrogacy is the best option for you. The baby is biologically yours, which is an essential factor. I had my surrogacy process from a repro center in Ukraine. It had the most satisfying procedure techniques. Very well educated doctors who were very cooperative. They provided me with the best services at very affordable prices. Even there VIP package wasn't theta expensive. If you want details, I'll love to share. Take care of yourself and do take a step for yourself now. Don't let infertility take over your life. Good Luck!
Please share your story fully with me i am gathering reviews of people who had gone through it.
Now i have persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy to have our own children.
I have founded many clinics regarding the surrogacy method but i think that BioTexCom is the best clinic regarding surrogacy.
I contacted with them and asked them many questions and every aspect about surrogacy and they replied to every question of mine.
From their satisfied answers i guess the BIoTexCom is the best solution for having a baby via surrogacy.
So i suggest that you people should also do your own research regarding surrogacy and should contact BioTexCom for further details.
But i'm worried about many other aspects like my behaviour towards the baby after knowing everything.
He has agreed for surrogacy so i started looking for clinics with good surrogacy records.
I know at this age it is quite difficult to have babies of my own womb.
Keeping in mind all the complications regarding pregnancy now i think i should go for some other option to have children.
Like when the baby grows up what i should tell him/her.
But now i don't have any other options left so far so surrogacy is the only solution to my problems i guess.
If someone is raising a baby from surrogacy method please share your experience with us so we can learn something from your experiences.
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I think your dream is a dream of every woman. We all think about having our own families. Being able to be with them and do things for them. However, sometimes things just don't go in our favor. I love children so much that I prefer playing with my sister's kids more than going out for shopping. Anyways life wasn't really at my side. As I have been trying for years and things haven't been working out. I did go for IUI as well in the hope that this might work. Several cycles of it and that too failed. However, then I decided to go to a specialist. They told me that my problem was very complicated. So it would be better for me to opt for an assisted conception. I searched for various clinics. As the process is expensive in the clinics here. Finally went to this clinic abroad as it had quite a good review. They told me that IVF would too disappoint me and I should opt for surrogacy which a lot of people had already told. Let's see where I go from this point in time.
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I am so sorry for you. I know it is hard for to overcome this. I can understand this is painful but it's in fate. You have many options it is not the end of the world. I have faced infertility for 5 years but today I am a happy mother. I chose surrogacy. I was searching for an affordable clinic. I had low funds and one day I found it in Europe. It was like my dream come true. I hope this would work for you too. I have a daughter now. I am so happy to be a mother.
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I am sorry to know about you. But you must know that there are regions in which surrogacy is quite affordable. I have had my IVF in Ukraine. They are very friendly and nice people. They have quite affordable packages. You have to chose according to your condition and status. They serve you exactly the way you want to be treated. They make your time very easy and relaxing. I enjoyed my stay there. I think you must visit it once. Only then you can know what is better for you. You will feel better. I hope everything falls into place for you. Fingers crossed for you. Sending love and wishes to you.
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Hello lovely lady.Happy to know that you are going through surrogacy process.You are doing good.keep going on.I had not my personal experience in this, but my best friend had to take this last year.She had the great experience in this clinic.I would suggest you it is the great procedure.I hope in future you are feeling better.Good luck.
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I am sorry to know about you. But you must know that there are regions in which surrogacy is quite affordable. I have had my IVF in Ukraine. They are very friendly and nice people. They have quite affordable packages. You have to chose according to your condition and status. They serve you exactly the way you want to be treated. They make your time very easy and relaxing. I enjoyed my stay there. I think you must visit it once. Only then you can know what is better for you. You will feel better. I hope everything falls into place for you. Fingers crossed for you. Sending love and wishes to you.
I heard that there are many good clinics in Ukraine regarding surrogacy.
Please share your experience with the clinic so i can also make up my mind.
I'm going for surrogacy and i hear there are many clinics regarding it.We have contacted clinic for this issue and they are helping us in each and every stage.
I conceived for three times but every pregnancy resulted in miscarriage.
I persuaded my husband to go for the surrogacy method to have a baby.
The consultant has given us a detail of this issue in every aspect.
They let us meet with the other couples who are raising babies via surrogacy method too.
The couples feedback is so satisfying that we are now ready to go for surrogacy.
The clinic has a number of surrogates who are willing to raise our child in their womb.
The clinic says that they will go through extensive tests methods to clear all the reports of surrogate so that we don't have any problems later on.
The clinic says that the surrogate should be good physically and should be perfectly alright.
The clinic has also its own many surrogates but they are looking the best one for us.
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I feel really bad for you. You have suffered for so long. There is still no ray of hope for you. Why dont you adopt a kind. Even if he or she is not newborn. Also, honey, everything has a solution. I agree surrogacy is expensive. It can be very hard on the pocket. There are clinics though that are affordable. They are not typical expensive one. I guess most people can afford it. I belong to a middle-class background. I know the financial struggles.I found a clinic which was affordable. I am so excited to welcome my baby next month. I think you should look into it too.
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Hi. I am so sorry for your problems. Many women are facing this nowadays. I am also one of them. Please don't give up. Funds aren't much of a problem. Trust me, I had surrogacy too. Just do some research. The prices vary greatly from clinic to clinic. Even search about clinics abroad. I went to Europe. The clinic there offered a great package. It was very economical. The service wasn't compromised, either. I have a baby girl now. It will work for you, too, hopefully.
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Hi diamond, hope you are fine. It's really sad to hear about your infertility. It's good that you didn't give up and now looking for surrogacy or adoption. It's up to you what you choose for yourself. I would suggest you that there are many clinics out there who are doing excellence in this field at very affordable prices. You should contact them.Things will be alright soon.
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Hey. I had the same problem. But I have a son now who I had through surrogacy. Surrogacy is very expensive in the States which is why I went to Ukraine for it. It cost very little and they guaranteed me a baby. So the money turned out to be an investment and gave me the most precious thing I will ever have. You should consider going to Ukraine for your surrogacy.
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Hi dear! Yes you are right.The joy of holding your child in your hands is something that is beyond every feeling.I can understand what you are going through.It's really hard to face the world even your husband when you are infertile.I am 31 years old and got married at 25.I also faced same difficulties and complications.I have this heart disease called mitral stenosis that prevents me from giving birth to child.Doctors say my heart cannot withstand the increased blood flow during pregnancy and results can be dangerous.So i decided to go for surrogacy.I think it is the best option for me.You also don't lose hope.I think you have suffered a lot but it is time to change things.I suggest you to give surrogacy a try.There are many clinics for this but i think you should try 'BioTexCom'.Wish you a happy life ahead.
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Hello there! I hope you are doing fine. Im so sorry to hear about your condition. I can understand that you are doing this for your husband. Well im a big advocate of IVF and surrogacy. Heres my story. It might give you hope. I got married in 2009. I have had two miscarriages since then. I had lost all hope to become a mother. Then I was told about this Ukraine based clinic. They later introduced us to surrogacy. My husband and I were reluctant in the beginning. Nevertheless, we took our chances. Now I am blessed with a beautiful baby boy. I pray that everyone gets blessed with children. Best of luck. Cheers!
Ukraine is booming surrogacy alot.
A friend of mine was very upset about her condition of infertility.
But later she came across the name of a BioTexCom clinic over the internet. She read a lot of positive feedback about the clinic.She persuaded her husband to go to Ukraine and get a solution to her infertility.
They went to Ukraine and found the clinic. The clinic has very good reviews about surrogacy. They are much satisfied about the clinic that they are ready for it.
I also am going for surrogacy as i have no more options left of having a baby. I have many complications regarding pregnancy too. Everytime i had conceived i resulted in miscarriage. So now i am also researching about surrogacy. I guess i will also go for biotexcom.
if someone has new experience about it please do share your experience with us.
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Hello, sweety! I am so sorry to learn that you are experiencing such issues. I have an idea that It's hard for you to bear. I am facing infertility as well. I know how much depressing and disturbing it is. One of my friends had a child from surrogacy treatment. She couldn't conceive naturally. She told me about her experience as the most enjoyable. She was very curious and excited about her child.You are right that surrogacy is expensive and it's hard to afford. She told me that a clinic is offering surrogacy at a reasonable cost. She recommended me to visit there. I haven't visited there yet. I'm still gathering some useful amount of information about that clinic. I think I'll achieve my goal soon. And also the center which is useful for the treatment. Wish you good luck!
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