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post #1 of 24 (permalink) Old 08-27-2018, 10:56 AM Thread Starter
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Surrogacy is great

Hey there how are you all? I hope you all are doing great. I wanted to share my journey. I am infertile and can't conceive a baby naturally. This is due to infertility. I and my partner had our first surrogacy on this last Monday. We are waiting for the results and pray for us.
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post #2 of 24 (permalink) Old 08-27-2018, 11:20 AM
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Hi dear. I hope you are doing good in your life. I am really sorry that you have to face infertility. It is really a curse. Surrogacy is really helpful in this case. Surrogacy is a blessing for couples who are facing infertility. It is one of the best and safe treatment available. All my best wishes and prayers are with you. May this prove to be helpful for you. Best of luck!
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Surrogacy is no doubt a wonderful treatment. It's helping many families to achieve their dreams. Choosing the good clinic is very important. Please beware of the worst clinics. There is a good clinic in Europe dealing in the best way. They are helping many people to achieve their dreams. Best of luck
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Try not to stress dear my petitions are with you something great and positive will happen soon. Remain solid and remain confident. There are numerous women like you who have experienced premature deliveries, however, later on, they brought forth solid infants and now living joyfully with their total family. You'll additionally have an uplifting news soon. These things are a piece of our life and ought to be confronted courageously. I am anticipating hearing something extraordinary from your side. Good fortunes!
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We all will definitely pray for you. I can understand that you are dealing with a lot. It is not easy to deal with infertility. You must have faced so many hardships. Things must have been really hard for you. But everything is going to be okay with the passage of time. You have taken the right decision to go for surrogacy. I am sure you won't regret your decision. Surrogacy is indeed a blessing. It has proved to be beneficial for a lot of people. I am hopeful that you will be blessed with a baby too. Just don't lose faith in yourself. My prayers with you.
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post #6 of 24 (permalink) Old 08-27-2018, 02:46 PM
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Hey there! You're right it is a great option. I don't recommend it to those that can conceive naturally. But for infertile couples, it is a good option. I have recently registered for it as well. I can't have safe pregnancies so after a lot of thinking I went for it. My partner and I were open to other options as well. But a really close friend suggested a good clinic, so we checked it out. I hope things go smoothly.
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Hello there. I'm doing very well and I hope you're good too. Well, you must be! You seem so excited yet worried. I know that this waiting period is like a patience test. A very extreme one. You can't sleep at night and just keep thinking about the result. As an anxious person, I get very worried even about little things. I remember my time when I was in your situation, I was suffering from insomnia. I would call up the clinic every 2 hours and ask them about the surrogate. But my clinic was very cooperative throughout this time. They never seemed annoyed by me, always talked to me in a friendly mood. I respect them so much for this. I had a wonderful procedure and I credit the clinic for this. So, don't worry, dear. Pray for yourself. I hope we read good news soon. All the best!
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I am sad for your circumstance. I wish things would have been easier and you have not needed to experience it. Truly, male fruitlessness happens. Fruitlessness could transpire independent of your sexual orientation. In this way, it's okay. Much the same as barrenness in females is dealt with for male fruitlessness can be dealt with in like manner. Surrogacy and IVF can likewise be used in this angle yet please ensure and clear the majority of your questions previously experiencing any strategy. It would be ideal if you remain solid since you should feel down and lost yet you truly need to remain cheerful in this circumstance. My supplications are with you.
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I am sorry about what you went through. It must have been really difficult. But don't stress about it. I have heard that these clinics are not honest with their work. These clinics have done this to so many people. They are just heartless. Clinics such as l****s. I was told that my cervix was damaged due to pelvic inflammatory. My doctor told me to go for surrogacy. So after consulting other specialists, i heard about a clinic, and so i contacted the l****S clinic. I sent them so man emails, but got no reply. They did not help me out at all. I was so depressed after that.The clinic ignored every email. And they did not even try to help me out. I was devastated, as i thought there would be no way out. But i had faith, and i was motivated to find a good clinci. Because surrogacy is really a good thing to go for.
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I have the same story as yours. I can't conceive naturally either. I have chosen surrogacy as a solution to my infertility. However, before doing this I went to Lotus clinic. I went there for IVF and it wasn't successful. My experience there wasn't as I expected. I changed the clinic and now I am going to welcome my baby daughter in October. I am 38 years old right now and really happy.
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Well, can relate your problem. Try any of the assisted procedures? Or you can have surrogacy? Yes! I've also wasted years as a TTC. Now, going for one. So, yeah! You can still be a mother. One way or another! SORRY, If I was a little blunt or straight-forward! *That's my way*
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post #12 of 24 (permalink) Old 08-27-2018, 11:15 PM
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Hello! Hope you are well! That's Great dear. Extremely cheerful to discover that you have picked Surrogacy. Not the greater part of the general population put it all on the line. No doubt it's a major advance from you. I hope that the outcome turns out as indicated by your desires. Else, I recognize what will happen to you. You'll get disappointed. I can understand that emotion. Why? Since I additionally went for this treatment. A friend recommended me about Surrogacy. Yet, I needed to affirm first. So I checked through the web. As I discovered she was right. Surrogacy has a higher achievement rate. Furthermore, it is a gift for the Infertiles.
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post #13 of 24 (permalink) Old 08-28-2018, 01:45 AM
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Thatís a pretty motivating story to hear! Iíve seen many women getting their lives changed through the surrogacy. Each day I got to hear such amazing news. I am an infertile person too. And I am looking for such procedures for so long. This would probably make me even stronger to look for this procedure. Love.XX
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Honey you need to be strong to know the results. Although I wish everything is smooth and safe. May all the odds be in your favor. Only a good clinic can fulfill your dream. The others are waiting to make money. I hope you went to the right place. I can never be happy with a bad decision such as a bad reputation clinic. Therefore I am going to visit a reliable clinic. My appointment is set for this weekend. I hope everything goes fine for me. Infertility has done some serious emotional damage to me. I am going to discuss the charges. I may have to borrow. It is a little bit out of my pocket, as what I have calculated.
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Hello there. I'm doing very well and I hope you're good too. Well, you must be! You seem so excited yet worried. I know that this waiting period is like a patience test. A very extreme one. You can't sleep at night and just keep thinking about the result. As an anxious person, I get very worried even about little things. I remember my time when I was in your situation, I was suffering from insomnia. I would call up the clinic every 2 hours and ask them about the surrogate. But my clinic was very cooperative throughout this time. They never seemed annoyed by me, always talked to me in a friendly mood. I respect them so much for this. I had a wonderful procedure and I credit the clinic for this. So, don't worry, dear. Pray for yourself. I hope we read good news soon. All the best!
Hey Jay, Im sure you are fine. I can totally relate to the situation honestly. The waiting period sometimes prolongs for some reasons. But really it's a patience test. And I believe that's very natural. I suggest people stay calm and avoid anxiety. People usually go through a very critical situation before the results as you spoke about yourself. But The thing with my clinic was a bit different. Their consultancy team in the first meeting made me relax and assured me about the treatment. Then the people i talked about regarding the clinic and surrogacy was eerily satisfying. So it was a wonderful experience for me.
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I will pray for you. I know how much this means to you guys. The surrogate will surely be pregnant soon. Btw where did you get the surrogacy done from? I need suggestions too. It's not like I am blank though. I am touch with a clinic in Europe. Still, I wanna be sure. It is also possible you are going to the same clinic. In any case, I just need success stories. In addition to this, I wanna know what things to keep in mind. Like a checklist kind of thing. Do help me out whenever you are free. Keep me in your prayers. Baby dust to you.
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Hi dear! I am fine thank you. How are you? I am glad that you chose the right option. Gestational surrogacy is the best option you can opt for. In this process, the surrogate mother carries the baby biologically yours in her womb. The thing is the success chance is high if you consult the best clinic. Some clinics also provide the surrogate mother. Like a clinic in Europe. They work under the proper lawsuits to avoid any trouble in future. I had my IVF treatment for this clinic. I was afraid at first. But, the staff is so encouraging and cooperative. They didn't only tell me the details of the process but also encourage me for this option. I believe your process will also go smoothly. May you have all the happiness you ever wanted.
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Surrogacy is indeed a very long journey. But it has proved to be very beneficial to a lot of people. It has proved to be a blessing. So many people opt for it to have a baby. It is a very sure shot. People also go for other assisted methods like IVF and IUI. But surrogacy has the highest success rates. I am glad that you decided to go for it. I hope your journey goes fine until the end. Just keep your hopes high always. Don't lose faith in yourself. Wish you all the best with it. My prayers are with you. Keep updating us. We all are here to help you.
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I am happy that you are moving on. I never had this but I think it is good to process to go for. Its success rate is very high. Well, As far as I know, its success depends on the clinic you choose. So I believe that you should go to the best clinic. Never choose a clinic without proper research. I hope it would be helpful to you. My best wishes are with you.
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I hope surrogacy works for you. It is a wonder treatment. I respect and value surrogates, donors and clinics who are putting in their efforts to brighten someone's life. A child is the most precious gift of nature. Infertility clinics, SMs, and donors work together to ensure that a childless person enjoys parenthood. It sometimes breaks my heart to see clinics like A****s who affect the overall image of infertility clinics. The negligence and unprofessional attitude of one clinic do affect the general perception of the public about the rest too. I really hope that such clinics are banned to save the overall image of infertility clinics.
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