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post #1 of 13 (permalink) Old 10-14-2015, 10:58 AM Thread Starter
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Should you pay your kids to do their chores?

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Should you pay your kids to do their chores?

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Regular chores are part of living in the house. Extra/special chores are for money.
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What Twinkle said. DS gets an allowance not tied to chores because he needed to learn how to use money, save money, blah blah but also because "Here's some money. Do what you want with it. You get more next payday. Don't ask me for money." Click here to enlarge

He also has his own checking & savings acct, part of his allowance goes to savings, which also saves him if his math or brain goes foggy & he overdraws Click here to enlarge I check his bank stmts to make sure he's not robbing savings for a stupid Steam game or something Click here to enlarge

Now that he's in HS, I upped his allowance - he's in arts magnet with lots of afterschool activities & challenging academics, and after-school jobs are discouraged. But I also tied his "raise" to good behavior, etc. It's working well so far.


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I think there are other chores that don't need payment and other chores would have payment or should I label it as a reward.
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I think rewards are better for children. In my case, I treat my kids outside or give what they want but definitely not money. Click here to enlarge
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i always pay of my child chores
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I don't want to practice my kids to be payed while doing basic household chores.
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post #10 of 13 (permalink) Old 08-04-2021, 06:00 PM
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Household chores help children learn important skills and feel good about contributing to family life. You can motivate children to do chores by praising and encouraging their efforts.
Young children can do chores like tidying up toys. Older children can help with setting the table, cleaning, cooking and so on. Non-monetary rewards for them will do. Closet Design and Install
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I preferred non-monetary award for my kids like giving them a toy or food after doing such tasks. Bathroom Tiles
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