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post #1 of 3 (permalink) Old 05-26-2005, 08:23 AM Thread Starter
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I have had a shitty week. I'm going through a divorce and my x came over and took my car. No warning or anything, I walked outside for something and just noticed that my car wasn't in the driveway. Of course, the police won't do anything because the car was bought during our marriage and we are still legally married.

He is refusing to make a reasonable effort to see our dd. He will call and ask to see her that day but it is always last minute and when I have plans to take her somewhere. He won't schedule it ahead of time and says that I am refusing to let him see her because I told him that he needs to give me a little notice so that we are not breaking plans. Even 1 day notice will be fine but I'm not telling her that we are not going to go to where ever we have plans to go to while we are getting dressed to go there. Sorry, he may be a sorry ass dad and doesn't feel bad for letting her down but I refuse to do it.

How am I not letting him see her? 2 weeks ago I called him and asked him to meet us some where so that he can see her (and we did) and then monday I call and tell him she has her pre-k awards ceremony on tuesday evening and that she'd like him to be there. You think he showed up? Nope. No prior conflicting plans, not working, anything. Just didn't come.

Fuck, I'm really starting to hate him.
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post #2 of 3 (permalink) Old 05-29-2005, 06:41 PM
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I'm sorry, that is really shitty of him.

1 day in advance is being more than kind to him.
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post #3 of 3 (permalink) Old 05-30-2005, 01:50 PM
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Men just don't get it. I never tell dd when her dd is coming, so she isn't disappointed when he doesn't, but she's getting older, so it's sure to happen.
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