I finally remembered a military board I was on once. When I was planning my wedding and was on "theknot.com" all the time, they had a Military Wives board. I thought it was so cool that they had a board for active duty women planning their weddings, then rapidly realized that it was for folks marrying INTO the military. So self-centered of me!

I don't recommend that board. I found it very frustrating to continually clear up the reality of military life, versus what these brides just knew to be true. I don't know where they got their information from, but it was rarely right.