To change Schools or not to change schools
Hi, my boyfriend and I recently found out his ex wife is now in Jail for the 2nd time for drugs. We are pursuing obtaining custody of his son. The difficult things is he would have to start a new school for the 2nd time this year. His mother in January switch schools and then switch him back 3 weeks later. His son is slightly autistic so he struggles with change. Currently he is staying with his mothers parents to keep some consistency for him. They seem to care, grandpa has a hot temper and grandma gives him EVERYTHING! He is 8 years old and already has the worst potty mouth I have ever heard. Not sure if this is from mom or grandpa. We are considering leaving him with her grandparents until the end of the school year but not sure if this is the right thing to do. When he moves in with us he will have to go to daycare and currently he comes home from school goes directly to his "living room", plays on his electronics until bed time. I am struggling with what is right he needs stability right now and he has it at grandma & Grandpa but he would receive the nurturing he so desperately desires from us. Thanks for letting me vent. I think I know what I want but I want to hear what you all think.