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| 11-23-2018 12:25 AM | |
| kylie |
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Hello, I am sorry that you are not feeling good.I am also facing unexplained infertility.My husband is the very fertile.No issue was there.But I diagnosed infertility.It is the worst thing in the universe.Children are the great blessing.No one can survive without them.I had my baby with IVF process in Ukraine.Now, my life is complete.Best wishes.
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| 04-05-2018 06:29 AM | |
| bennitaa | Hey, I am so sorry for you. Infertility takes a lot out of a person. I would suggest you that you should go for some other test from somewhere else too. Sometimes infertility is not known. My sister had the same problem. They were not able o have babies. They went to the doctor and then her test was clear. Her husband tests were clear too. So she went to other clinics. Where she came to know that she is facing infertility. She went for treatments after that but failed. In the end, she opted surrogacy for her. She wanted babies badly. So she went for it. After all that struggle she was blessed. Its been 2 years and now she is planning to have another baby soon. I hope this would help some other people too. |
| 04-05-2018 06:28 AM | |
| bennitaa | Hey, I am so sorry for you. Infertility takes alot out of a person. I would suggest you that you should go for some other test from somewhere else too. Someto=imes infertility is not known. My sister had the same problem. They were not able o have babies. They went to the doctor and then her test were clear. Her husband tests were clear too. So she went to other clinic. Where she came to know that she is facing infertility. She went for treatments after that but failed. In the end she opted surrogacy for her. She wanted babies badly. So she went for it. After all that struggle she was blessed. Its been 2 years and now she is planning to have another baby soon. I hope this would help some other people too. |
| 04-04-2018 10:26 AM | |
| Rhonda492 | Hi monika. Thank you for outlining these options for us. TTC with infertility issues is a long tiring journey. I wish everyone here gets their good news soon. I'm sorry for your IUI attempts. These usually work best when wife is healthy but husband has an issue. As for you, I think IVF or surrogacy would be better. Good luck and let us know what the clinic suggests you. |
| 04-02-2018 07:10 PM | |
| Hillgreen105r | Hey dear.I can understand your condition.Sometimes it could happen with a woman.It's difficult to understand the clear situation.I would suggest you not to take any more risk and waste the time.You should take another optionlike surrogacy and IVF.You have great chances to have the blessing of a baby through this.Keep up the good work.Good luck. |
| 03-31-2018 06:13 AM | |
| linda_snow | Hello @Melanija, good to see you here. Everything is fine here. I just hope if you are doing good too. Well, the main problem with you is actually you give up too early. Can you please mention some details about you? Life is a war, only those succeed who never lose hope and keep on trying. You are such a nice and hardworking woman. It will be easier for you to cope with it. Instead of going through the basic tests, I think you should visit some fertility experts. A fertility expert can guide you in a very better way. Most of the experts recommend surrogacy treatment. IVF is also another option but it’s hard for some patients to carry a chemical pregnancy as it requires good health. So, keep trying, have a detailed check-up before the time passed away. Best wishes from mine side! |
| 03-30-2018 12:21 PM | |
| Meezee | Hey dear! My condolences are with you. I can understand how you feel. I wanted to share my story to tell you that if something wrong happens no need to worry you have many methods. I was diagnosed with diabetes type 2 and was pregnant. Doctors started my diabetes treatments and due to change in insulin levels i lost my baby not once but thrice. After 5 years of struggling i went through IVF and failed its 3 cycle and then my doctors recommended me surrogacy and in went to Europe and now have a son. Telling you my story doesn’t mean that you cannot recover, i only wanted to let you know that surrogacy is a blessing. Hope for the best and take the treatment for next week and then decide. Best of luck. |
| 03-27-2018 02:26 PM | |
| phoebe |
So called unexplained infertility is a huge problem nowadays. Unfortunately, doctors don't know how to deal with it. A lot of couples just give up. It is so frustrating. Every woman should have kids! It is so unfair. I just don't understand why it is happening to us. Anyway, medicine is also developing very fast. Doctors are inventing different treatments to help infertile couples. Such services as IVF, surrogacy and adoption are getting very popular. And it is really great. We all should have a solution to our issue. Personally I am going through surrogacy at the moment. As I'm unable to give birth, this is my chance to get my biological baby. A lot of couples are afraid of surrogacy. But there's nothing to be afraid of. Everything will be fine if you choose a good reproduction center. If your husband's tests are OK, you should think of IVF or surrogacy. You should discuss these options with your doctor. After all, adoption is also a great option. There are so many lonely kids, which need home. Whatever you choose, you should remember that you still have a chance to become parents. It is very important to stay positive. You will lose as soon as you give up. That's why stay strong and keep fighting. Every person is worth of having kids. And you are not an exception. Do your best to solve this issue. Let me support you, dear. Keep trying and you will succeed. Good luck. |
| 03-27-2018 12:09 PM | |
| Rhonda492 | Unexplained infertility is annoying, I know. I have a friend who's 45 and hasn't had a baby. She had been TTC for years. The doctor told her that she should just keep TTC. Guess what? Even after 10 years of trying, the doctors say the same to her. Unfortunately, you are right that you can't cure what you don't know. I am very sorry for your trouble. I really wish there was something positive to say. Anyway, no news is good news, right? Maybe you're giving up too early. Many couples have trouble conceiving for the first few years. You probably might conceive by the end of this year! Keep your fingers crossed and keep TTC. You never know when a miracle is coming your way. Oh, don't forget to update us! |
| 03-27-2018 09:38 AM | |
| ella232 | I had unexplained infertility and it took me 4 years to conceive my oldest son and 1 year to conceive my second. I know exactly how you felt. Then I found a clinic in Ukraine (BiotexCom) for IVF.I swear it was the best decision of my life.Just stay postive you'll find your way out. |
| 03-27-2018 08:51 AM | |
| monika | Unexplained infertility can definitely be an issue. As that is the most common reason as to why so many couples are unable to conceive. If you have been TTC for a year. I would suggest you consider IUI as an option. After which IVF and surrogacy are two options that are also considered by various couples. However, it really depends on the complexities being faced by the individual as well. As I myself am in the same boat of TTC.I was diagnosed with poor ovarian reserve. This was definitely hard for me to accept. As the doctors told me that my hormones were imbalanced. Also, my AF was also irregular. So due to all these complications, IUI was also not working for me. I had to go through 3 cycles of IUI all of which failed. So life has definitely been not on my side. I have recently come across this clinic I hope they are able to help me out. |
| 03-26-2018 07:41 AM | |
| lauren |
Yes, you should do some fertility tests. If your doctor cant explained the problem then the only way for the explanation is to get tested. Without a doubt, children are the greatest blessings. If still after your tests you cant get pregnant you can go for surrogacy. It is the best option for infertile couples. |
| 03-25-2018 05:56 PM | |
| mariegresham | Hello, I am sorry that you are not feeling good.I am also facing unexplained infertility.My husband is the very fertile.No issue was there.But I diagnosed infertility.It is the worst thing in the universe.Children are the great blessing.No one can survive without them.I had my baby with IVF process in Ukraine.Now, my life is complete.Best wishes. |
| 03-13-2018 09:59 AM | |
| justicejay | Hey Melanija! I'm so sorry to hear about your situation, dear. I deeply empathize with you. Life is being very unfair to you. I would suggest you take multiple opinions from different doctors. Also, infertility is very common nowadays. And so are its treatments. Even if your infertility declares to be unexplained, don't worry. There are many other methods of having a baby. Modern methods like IVF and Surrogacy has made lives easier. You have to think out of the box now. Everything will be fine. I hope your husband's test results are also normal. Good Luck! |
| 03-12-2018 11:01 AM | |
| diamond | I just wanted to check on you. Did the results come back? Though private messaging you won't be a nice idea. Actually, I am going through something similar. If this idea helped you then I would go for it too. I have always blamed myself for my childlessness. Hoping to get a reply soon. |
| 03-12-2018 10:27 AM | |
| Molly748 |
Hey there. I feel like you should let your husband's report come first. Because problems arise only because of reasons. I don't know thing something like infertility could exist on its own. So get your husband tested. And then you can have him treated if there's an issue. Otherwise, you can go for IVF or surrogacy. These are great alternatives for parents who want to conceive but cannot naturally. Also, you should try not to overthink it. I know it's very hard to keep your mind off of something like that. I also had to go through it and I was consumed by it. I was  when I had my second miscarriage. Hopefully, you'll conceive soon. Just don't stress a lot as it can also keep you from conceiving. Best of luck and keep us updated with the results, would love to help you out.
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| 03-09-2018 03:45 AM | |
| jenny5 | Hey Melanija! I'm sorry to hear that things aren't going good at your side. I understand it gets hard to stop thinking about this. It makes you so much upset and stressed that you can't do anything about it. Well, for now, i think you should wait for your husband's test reports. Make sure that everything is okay with his health. If he has some issues, then ask him to get himself properly treated. help him to go through this situation. and if it's the opposite case, then you can go for alternatives. you can go for surrogacy. i am not asking you to do it at any cost. it is just a suggestion. even i have gone through this process. i wanted a baby that would be biologically mine. and i have a baby boy who is 8 months old. i feel so happy and satisfied. it's all because of a clinic in Europe that made it all possible. try doing some research on the stuff and then take a decision. good luck! |
| 03-08-2018 03:46 AM | |
| caroline1975 | Dear Melanija It is sad that you are having problems in conceiving. I can understand your feelings very well. As you have mentioned that your husband has to go for some tests so don't lose hope. There might be some way out to resolve your issues. It isn't as problematic as you think. Your infertility is not confirmed. There are so many people who are TTC for a very long time. These people conceive years after the marriage. There might be some deficiency that is hindering your conception. It is also possible that the destiny does not want you to have the happiness of being a mother right now. Let the tests of your husband come. This would give a much clearer picture of your status. Even if there is infertility there is nothing to feel stressed or depressed. You can avail many medical treatments for answering this problem. I will pray that your road to motherhood brings you closer to the destination. |
| 03-07-2018 01:16 PM | |
| kylie | I hope your husband's results are positive. This happens to a lot of people. You might just be having trouble conceiving. Track your ovulation days properly. Take care of your health and start working out if possible. You can keep on trying to get pregnant. If you still don't get pregnant, consider going for IVF. IVF is a technique of assisted conception. I'm sure it will work for you. Good luck |
| 02-12-2018 11:23 PM | |
| rebecca | I think you have no problem in your body as your doctor explained you earlier. Your husband might have some sperm issues, he should consult doctor for this. There can be one more problem of timings. Or hormonal imbalance that might causing some problems in your life. Just keep trying hard and have proper treatment if you truly want to have a baby in your life. Best of luck too you, Hope both of you have safe treatment. |
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