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08-28-2018 11:52 AM
juliet Hello Sophia! I am really sad to read your story! It's really devastating! Conceiving a child is not in a woman's hand! It's a natural process! You should tell your husband regarding this! Infertility is not a big problem these days! You have to be strong enough to fight with it! Take your husband in confidence and tell him that this is not the end of the world! Surrogacy and IVF's are the solutions to infertility! Convince him to look clinics in Ukraine! Don't worry everything will be in your favor!
08-28-2018 11:48 AM
Tinkerbell Life is not a bed of roses. I always heard these words. It was too hard for me to believe this. I was in love with my happiness. I had so much in my life that kept me engrossed. The things changed when the doctors told me that I was unable to conceive. It forced me look for better options. My search helped me find a clinic in Ukraine. The clinic is renowned for its extraordinary services in the field of fertility testaments. The proficient fertility experts use the most recent ways to resolve the concerns. The clinic has all the updated versions of the treatments. The stff is admired for being cooperative and responsible. The best thing is it can treat men and women of all ages. There is nothing to worry about the severity of situation too. The clinic gives a sound treatment for all problems. I feel really at ease now that I am about to go to the right place.
08-28-2018 10:12 AM
Farrah41
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Becoming a mother is the biggest desire of every woman. But losing hope and will is not the solution to any problem. Can you please share some details about your meeting? I donít think that surrogacy is not so reliable. Many infertile couples are taking advantage of it and Iím sure that youíll enjoy it too. I will pray for your success!
Hey Richa, I hope you are well. First of all, I just want to make a correction here. Surrogacy is not fun at all. No ones like to be infertile. It can be the worst thing that can ever happen to women. There are a lot of woman suffering from it. And you have no idea what obstacles do they face in their lives. Their marriage lives are terribly affected. As you can see the woman above who have posted this is anxious and worried about her situation. But yeah, Surrogacy is a wonderful option for the people who are looking forward to have a baby. I had it from a clinic in Ukraine. And it was a good experience with them. I hope and pray that people who are looking forward to any treatment get their hopes fulfilled..
08-28-2018 10:11 AM
Farrah41
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Becoming a mother is the biggest desire of every woman. But losing hope and will is not the solution to any problem. Can you please share some details about your meeting? I donít think that surrogacy is not so reliable. Many infertile couples are taking advantage of it and Iím sure that youíll enjoy it too. I will pray for your success!
Hey Richa, I hope you are well. First of all, I just want to make a correction here. Surrogacy is not fun at all. No ones like to be infertile. It can be the worst thing that can ever happen to women. There are a lot of woman suffering from it. And you have no idea what obstacles do they face in their lives. Their marriage lives are terribly affected. As you can see the woman above who have posted this is anxious and worried about her situation. But yeah, Surrogacy is a wonderful option for the people who are looking forward to have a baby. I had it from a clinic in Ukraine. And it was a good experience with them. I hope and pray that people who are looking forward to any treatment get their hopes fulfilled.
08-28-2018 09:43 AM
Niamh Hey, i am so so sorry to hear that. You must be so stressed. i can feel you. But please do tell your husband about it And don't panic. There is solution to this problem. Infertility treatments are here for you. All you need to do is to choose a right procedure. And contact a fertility clinic for it. I will highly recommend you to choose surrogacy as it is the best option. And choose gestational surrogacy. You maybe are new to these terms. You need to research on them. Watch videos and documentaries on these terms. It will help you a lot. I hope everything goes well with you. Best of luck!
08-28-2018 09:02 AM
Rabecca055 Hey Sofia! I hope you are doing fine. Today,s world infertility becomes a common issue. Every second woman facing infertility issue. Well, you don't need to be panic. There are alternatives available through which you can cope with infertility. I am also an infertile person. I had hysterectomy owing to cancer spread due to which I couldn't able to conceive. Then I came to know about surrogacy. I and DH opted for surrogacy as it was our last hope. We went to Europe because surrogacy banned in our country. Now we are going to have twin baby dolls soon. Well, I suggest you should go for an alternative. I hope it will helpful for you. Best wishes.
08-28-2018 07:14 AM
dakota Hey there. How are you now? Have you told your husband. I think you should not waste any time in this. The sooner you discuss it with him, the sooner would you start your treatment. There is nothing to be worried or ashamed about. Infertility is a harsh reality of life, it can affect anyone.
08-27-2018 02:49 PM
Amber Hello sofia. This is so heartbreaking. My sincere advice to you is that firstly you have to calm yourself down. When you get to know that you are not able to conceive and give birth to a child, the very first person you let this know about should be your husband. This is a sense of responsibility that being a wife you should let your husband know. So, you both can think and discuss about the ways you can have the opportunity to become parents as you both are involved in this. There are certain ways like adoption, IVF, surrogacy etc. As adoption is so common. And mostly couples adopt. But unfortunately those kids can't be your biological kids. Deep down You always think that you are raising someone else's kid. So I would suggest you to opt surrogacy as it is one of the safest and successful infertility treatment. You both can have your biological child. I hope it will help you and you will consider my advice. I wish you all the best of luck.
08-27-2018 12:53 PM
nathalie34 This is sad. I am sorry that you are going through this. Did the doctor tell you the reason? I am sure there must be some reason. Once you find that out you can treat it with different options. There are IVF and IUI. They are beneficial for so mnay. Do not lose hope so soon.
08-27-2018 12:25 PM
amili Hey! I feel so sorry for you. But you should not take tension or have bad thoughts. Stay strong for yourself. After hearing this news of infertility everyone gets so upset. One should never give up. You should go and consult your doctor.Discuss your problems with her and ask for the best suggestion. Be positive and stay calm. Everything will be alright soon!
08-27-2018 11:39 AM
Kriten12 Hello dear, I felt sad to know what happened. I know it would be much difficult for you. Dealing infertility is really hard. Infertility is a bumpy ride. You have to stay calm. Positivity is the only weapon of you. You have to take everything positively. Well, this was not me four months back. I was not so strong. I was the weakest. I lost my baby. Everything turned black that day. But a ray of hope sprouted. I came to know about a clinic in Europe. This clinic was highly rated. And there were tons of good reviews. Well, I and my husband has decided to move to Europe now. As we wanted to start our surrogacy journey. I am much hopeful. And I think my decision will make us proud.
08-27-2018 11:14 AM
abigail Hey dear, don't be depressed. Just stay normal. It is okay. Not more time has passed. You can get a second opinion. Consult a good doctor. You will find a reason for it. And don't hide it from your husband. It would be fine if you tell him what's going wrong with you. You both should handle it. I am also not conceiving due to my weak strength of body. Yes, I am an anorexic woman dealing with hormones problem. And it is notable for me to get pregnant. Therefore, I searched related to fertility clinics. Luckily, I have found a better clinic in Europe. The benefit of this clinic is that they ask you to be satisfied first. You can have a tour. And get relaxed. I have witnessed all the facilities there. And I met the doctors too. They were very nice to me. They told me about the surrogacy. And soon I will be going for it.
08-27-2018 10:50 AM
Portia37 Dear Sofia! This is a very heartbreaking news. I am sorry for this tragedy in your life. I think that you should share this with your husband. Surely he will understand you because we are humans and we do not have supernatural powers to stop such thing from happening. Dear, do not lose hope and feel disappointed. You can go for IVF or surrogacy. I am infertile too. I was also stressed like you. If I am happy today, that is because of the Ukrainian clinic that treated my infertility. They gave me one of the best surrogates. She (the surrogate) gave birth to a healthy handsome boy. Hence, you can also opt for such processes. Don't giveup.
08-27-2018 10:09 AM
kylie Sorry to hear about that. This must be so hard for you. You know its alright to take your time. You need to accept this yourself first. Don't worry about your husband right now. If he is a reasonable man, he will support you and be there for you. I know it is a lot to take in right now. But trust me you will get through this. Giving birth to a child yourself isn't the only way to have a baby. There are other options you could choose from. There are so many possibilities. I know of a good clinic you could go to for this. They will guide you with what treatment suits your condition. Trust me, once you meet them, you will feel better about this. Good luck.
08-27-2018 08:57 AM
Lisawatson Juts tell your husband everything. He is your life partner, your better half. He has right to know each and everything. I know you are scared to tell him as this will disappoint him. And also tell him that there are fertility treatments like surrogacy. Surrogacy is working like a miracle. A woman gives birth to someone else baby, is such a beautiful things. Surrogates are angles on earth. You should not lose hope as you are not alone in this world who is facing this curse. There are millions of people who has been facing this curse since ages. I am one of them. I have been facing it since 8 years. Today science has progressed so much. We have treatments like surrogacy these days which have higher success rate. And surrogacy is safest procedure among all as well. I am also soon going to start my surrogacy soon. I am going to visit a event soon which is being arranged by a clinic Biotexcom. This clinic is in ukraine. They have not yet mentioned the date and venue of the clinic. But i have heard a lot about this clinic. So i am visiting it and if things worked out, i will visit the clinic as well. I will recommend you to visit this event also as it is a great chance.
08-27-2018 08:31 AM
monika Hey I am extremely sorry to hear about your story. I am sure it must have been a really hard time for you. I myself, when was diagnosed, was completely shattered. It is a really difficult situation to cope with because you are never ready. My suggestion to you would be to visit a doctor that is experienced and known in this field. The clinic I am visiting helped me greatly. They studied my case and helped me out. I think you should do the same.
08-27-2018 05:40 AM
ammy.j Hey! It's sad to know this. I know you are very nervous to tell your partner about this. Infertility is a very hard fact. Telling your partner you are infertile can give both you and them anxiety. Be calm when you break the news and explain right off the bat that you will love them no matter what the outcome is. Assure him that your love for him is its own entity and does not rely on this news. Reassure your partner that even though they may be the one with the fertility issue, they will not be going through it alone. This includes doctor visits; medication orders, retrievals, and administrations; and invasive procedures. Just stay strong girl! You will need to be very brave. The fertility process can make everyone feel helpless. My prayers are with you. Best of luck in the future!
08-27-2018 05:14 AM
Chiyo Hello! I hope you're doing fine. I'm extremely sad about your situation dear. You don't deserve this. Life has been extremely out of line to you. I feel awful! But still, Try not to lose trust. There is no reason to worry one day, trust me. Present day strategies like surrogacy are extremely dealing with making our lives less demanding. You should go for surrogacy. I won't recommend you IVF as your periods are irregular and you had big stress! So you have to rest your body and mind now. Surrogacy is a superior choice for you. It is more solid and safe to go for. Discover a center in Europe. Surrogacy is substantially less expensive there. I wish you Luck and bliss. Loads of affection and supplications for you.
08-27-2018 03:38 AM
emilia Hey! I am so sorry. It's sad to know this. I know you are very sad and heart. The fertility process can make everyone feel helpless. But you need to tell your partner about this. Infertility is a very difficult phase of life. Telling your partner you are infertile can give both you and them anxiety. Be calm when you break the news and explain right off. Think about other options that you can go for. There are plenty of them. It's is a modern age of science. Just stay strong girl! You will need to be very brave. My prayers are with you. Best of luck in the future!
08-27-2018 01:45 AM
lidya Hey! Sofia! Just ignore the bad experience, I know there are expectations and hope. but, yeah! Other donít care. Donít let your hope die. Stay strong for now! You can do it. Keep going! Try searching for other options or centers. Iím also having surrogacy soon. So, yeah! I know how it goes! Wish you all the best! Keep going! You can still be a mother! Just ignore all the negativities. Iím sorry you had to go through that. Good luck to you, I hope things get better, soon.
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