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| 03-02-2014 02:05 PM | |
| Pudin |
Get well, Patsit. Just get well. 
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| 02-28-2014 07:36 AM | |
| LaughingCow | Ugh. Yes, you've had problems in your past. But that doesn't mean you're no longer worthy of a respectful, loving relationship. You can be grateful that he stuck with you through the bad stuff without committing to being punished for it for the rest of your life. |
| 02-28-2014 07:10 AM | |
| BlueKitten |
I think that's the toughest, not getting sucked in emotionally and especially not falling back into old patterns in my own responses to my ex as well as to those who are still snowed by his act. Hang in there, you can do this and it sounds like you have a good support system where you're at. |
| 02-28-2014 06:50 AM | |
| Patsit |
Dear doG he's a dick. What a manipulative piece of shit, along with my Mother who believes I should just let him continue to treat me like shit because of my past. I need to practice the apathetic stuff so it carries into all my dealings with him and her if she keeps this shit up. The opposite of love is not hate, it's apathy. Water, rinse, repeat. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
| 01-30-2014 07:12 AM | |
| Bayou Lena |
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Thank the Gods or what the fuck ever that I have people in my life who love me unconditionally.
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| 01-30-2014 06:00 AM | |
| Patsit |
What is nice about all of this though is that I no longer have to give a rats fart about what HE does or says to me. I get to own my part of this divorce etc and walk away leaving him to deal with his part. He has no way to cope to be honest. He needs help too. Not just for our issues and how they affected him but for his own shit. I've tried to help him at the risk of my own health and sanity. I know it isn't my job and I just did it so I didn't have to face myself or the rest of the shit show, but I'm back to me again. No threats, etc but no more door mat or "yes" woman either. Thank the Gods or what the fuck ever that I have people in my life who love me unconditionally. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
| 01-30-2014 05:19 AM | |
| califred |
I'm sorry I missed this thread. I too always thought he was an ass. You will get through this and the other side will be so much nicer and more peaceful. |
| 01-28-2014 03:41 PM | |
| graceiha |
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| 01-27-2014 09:55 PM | |
| Patsit |
Family heirloom and piece of crap to be honest. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
| 01-25-2014 06:58 AM | |
| ImaC |
Why would you give him back a piece of jewelry you could have hocked for the gold money at least?!!!! You need to be thinking of these things. That isn't his ring. It is yours. Stop being symbolic and be practical. |
| 01-22-2014 08:39 AM | |
| BlueKitten |
It does suck. I don't want to be with my ex, and I am so glad to be away from him, but there are lots of things that hit me. It's crazy. I'm looking forward to when that stops happening so much. I'm sorry it was rough
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| 01-22-2014 06:20 AM | |
| LaughingCow | Fuck yesterday. But today will be different. It's okay to grieve. Allow yourself to do that even while you have hope for the future. |
| 01-22-2014 06:04 AM | |
| Twinklestars | Why return the wedding ring? Unless it was a family heirloom from his side. |
| 01-22-2014 06:00 AM | |
| wren |
. There's no way out but through. : itsok
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| 01-21-2014 09:40 PM | |
| Patsit |
Met with exH to return wedding ring and get some stuff. Cried in King Soopers in front of God and everyone and then for another 45 min on the way to my Dad's. This just sucks even if you know you can't stay with the person. Like I said, fuck today. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
| 01-21-2014 09:35 PM | |
| BlueKitten |
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Fuck today. Just in case you were wondering.
Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk I have more than a few of those days. Hang in there. If you want to talk we're here.
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| 01-21-2014 09:14 PM | |
| Patsit |
Fuck today. Just in case you were wondering. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
| 01-21-2014 02:48 PM | |
| Harlot |
Just lots of love and support to you.
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| 01-21-2014 09:47 AM | |
| Annie |
What everyone else said.
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| 01-21-2014 08:55 AM | |
| wren |
I'm glad you are getting out of that marriage and so glad you are where you need to be, getting well. . That man does not have your best interests at heart and you are much better off focusing on yourself without him. Your girls will see your strength and tenacity and they will learn from that. .
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