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08-25-2018 03:25 AM
AlexaStewart123 Hi dear. I can understand your feeling. You must have gone through some tough times. I am happy that you are finding your peace in the baby. It is delighted to know that you have opted for surrogacy. It is very essential that we should not make our weakness a taboo and move forward. Surrogacy is also a journey as a roller coaster ride. Everything will not be gifted to you soon. You need to be patient and very strong for this. The choice of the clinic is very important. there are many scammers who are simply exploiting the situation of the people. You need to stay away from the scammers. I do not want to misguide you but one of my friends do not have some good experience regarding lotus. I think you should ponder over it again. You can check the clinics of Eastern Europe. There is a clinic with reliable services. Also, the packages are very affordable. Anyways I wish you luck in your journey. Stay blessed and stay confident.
08-25-2018 02:41 AM
ginny Hi dear! I can feel for you. Losing the by or TTC is the toughest thing for a lady. The couple after marriage wants someone to pour their love and make their own new and happy world. This can be possible with the babies. It also strengthens their relationship. But if you are having an issue in TTC then you shouldn’t be a pessimist. It had happened to me as well. I was facing fetal abnormalities. After TTC for 3 years, I decided to opt for IVF. Someone suggested my DH the clinic Biotexcom. I was a little afraid that hopeful. The staff and doctors are so cooperative that they support me emotionally as well as medically very well. I suggest you consult the same clinic. The good news is that the Clinic is going to conduct an open session. The date and venue are not yet decided. But if you attend their session you can get all of your questions answered. Wishing you all the very best sweetie.
08-24-2018 10:46 AM
KatherineHunter Hey honey, how are you? I'm so sorry to hear that. It must've been so hard. Just don't despair. Stay positive. Everything Will be alright. I promise you. Take care of yourself. And try better clinics next time.
08-24-2018 09:11 AM
heman123 The widget you face every situation with great courage. why you are thinking it as a negative one. Look, we encountered problems every day. It doesn’t mean that we start complaining about them. we always try to learn a lesson. Have you heard about a term adventurous? Adventurous means you face many hurdles and at the end, you get a lesson. A lesson which may help you to testify thing on your next journey. I would like to say go what you think is better for your future. but let me clear one thing what will you do if the same thing happened to you there? You have no control over fate. Some things come into our lives to make us a better man. Make efforts and leave rest of the things on nature. Try your best to access high rated clinic in Ukraine. This will benefit you more.
08-22-2018 03:25 PM
Elena Hey, honey. I'm so sorry for your experience. I really hope things get better for you. It must have been really hard. Please don't lose the faith. I'm sure things will get better. Just do your research before choosing another clinic. Good luck, honey!
08-21-2018 11:50 AM
Lilystan Hey there. I hope you are doing fine. I am so sorry to hear about your story. Surrogacy is one of the best procedures for TTC. I have been through infertility. I was devastated when i found out that i had a pelvis inflammatory disease and because of that i could never get pregnant . My husband and i were beyond devastated, We went for surrogacy. The procedure is worth it, And everything pays off. My prayers are with you.
08-21-2018 08:47 AM
Shalley Hi, Winget. It is great to see that you have posted this. It is going to help many people. I am sorry for your poor experience with this particular clinic. This clinic has really shattered the hopes of the people. They are breaking away the trust of many others as well. My friend also contacted them. She sent them several emails. She tried to contact them for a long time. She waited for their response. She was very hopeful. But, unfortunately, she did not get any reply. She got very disappointed and depressed. However, I was going to a different clinic in Ukraine and I suggested it to her as well. Its a very organized clinic and they make sure to register only verified clients. They are very professional and passionate about their reputation.
08-21-2018 04:56 AM
katherine582 Hey,hope you are doing well.You had a difficult childhood.But do not take this as a negative.Find the flaws in what your parents did and try to avoid them when you become a parent.It is not easy as one have to completely change themselves.I am glad you decided to go for surrogacy.One thing you should keep in mind is that there are alot of fake clinics out their waiting to loot you.So be careful in choosing the right clinic.I am infertile also.I have been married for 6 years now. I was pregnant but due to an accident i lost my child and after that i had MC's. MC's broke me and i had given up.My DH kept supporting me and kept on looking for ways for treatments.Eventually a friend of ours told us about a clinic in Ukraine.We decided to contact them through email and told them about our situation.They responded us immediately and asked us to visit them.We told them it was not possible for us to visit them.Instead of leaving us stranded they guided us through emails and told us about our options and what packages will suit us.We recently visited them and had our tests conducted after that we signed a contract with them.Soon we will start looking for surrogate to begin our.I am very satisfied by them and would suggest you to look for them.wish you luck for future.
08-21-2018 04:41 AM
Olivia Hi there. You have been through so much. I am so sorry. I have been through infertility. Surrogacy is one of the best procedures for TTC. Starting i was devastated when i found out that i had a pelvis inflammatory disease and because of that i could never get pregnant . My husband and i were beyond devastated, We went for surrogacy. The procedure is worth it. Just stay positive. Surrogacy is the best thing to have happened to me.
08-19-2018 09:43 PM
sheilat I had two miscarriages after marriage. Above all, we contacted a bad clinic called Lotus. I had lost all hope to become a mother. Then my husband and I started looking for alternatives. We found IVF and also a good clinic. We were reluctant in the beginning. Nevertheless, we took our chances. Now we are blessed with a beautiful baby boy. I hope everyone gets blessed with children. Cheers
08-19-2018 09:32 PM
richa It’s a wonder they haven't been shut down yet. Clinics like these put other good ones to shame. Hopefully, people find better ones. I don’t understand the point of putting an email ad for customers and that not responding to them. I’ve also heard many negative comments about the clinics. It makes me angry. They do not help at all. This is no way to deal with patients. These people are already so worried as it is. I think you should keep looking for better clinics. They are definitely out there. Wishing you all the best of luck!
08-09-2018 02:00 PM
richa Visiting a clinic is not at all a bad idea as long as they are helping you achieve the purpose. But make sure to avoid visiting a clinic with a bad reputation like Adonis clinic because they might show no concern or may lead you in the wrong direction. In my case, by finding a good clinic I have changed a lot. It's slightly expensive but that's because it comes with a guarantee. Also, the difference is money isn't too much if you consider going to a reasonable clinic. They excel in surrogacy and offer low rates as well. Good luck!
08-09-2018 01:47 PM
sheilat Sorry to hear about your losses. It is difficult to overcome the pain. You suffered too much because of miscarriages. Miscarriages are the worst behavior of the clinics. We are in the same boat. I also had two miscarriages in the past. The doctor told me about my infertility. I was in depression. It was hard for me. Great to know your thoughts about surrogacy. You are correct. It gives you the most satisfying outcomes and is secure enough as compared to the other methods. So I suggest that going for surrogacy will be a good decision. But it opting for surrogacy and then search for the clinic is the real deal. Anyway, good luck
08-09-2018 11:09 AM
sheilat Sorry to hear about your losses. It is difficult to overcome the pain. You suffered too much because of miscarriages. Miscarriages are the worst behavior of the clinics. We are in the same boat. I also had two miscarriages in the past. The doctor told me about my infertility. I was in depression. It was hard for me. Great to know your thoughts about surrogacy. You are correct. It gives you the most satisfying outcomes and is secure enough as compared to the other methods. So I suggest that going for surrogacy will be a good decision. But it opting for surrogacy and then search for the clinic is the real deal. Anyway, good luck
08-08-2018 01:30 PM
Lilystan I am so sorry to hear about your situation. I hope you are coping with it just fine. This isn't something easy. But be strong. I would suggest that you sit down your husband. And discuss the options of IUI, IVF, and surrogacy or adoption. There are clinics that will help you out in the above procedures. Surrogacy is the best option. As it is safe to say that it is a guarantee that you will have your own kids. There are infertility clinics that can guide you through this. Don't be stressed please. It will only do you harm. Just stay positive. And do things that make you happy. I am sure your husband will understand. My prayers and best wishes are with you. Stay blessed.
08-08-2018 01:20 PM
richa Hello, surrogacy is great and works well. Surrogacy allows you to have own biological baby. Though baby is delivered by another woman. I was facing severe infertility last year, I am choosing surrogacy program in Ukrainian clinic.I was experiencing good success.everything going fantastic.hope in your case thing is going more better and good. I hope you will also be able to make your mind and take some good decision for you.
08-08-2018 01:13 PM
sheilat Hi there. Hope you are well. Yeah, I know someone who was a surrogate mother. She had the best experience of her life. Surrogacy is a great alternative for those who cannot conceive and get parents. Going for any; you should first consult a doctor. Ask them which one would be best suited for you? If they say go for an IVF treatment; then dive in! If they advise for surrogacy; you already have things planned out, my dear.
08-08-2018 10:51 AM
jacklyn Hello dear. Hope you are fine and great. That's very upsetting and disturbing. Infertility is just not the simple thing to live with. we feel so neglected among others. there's just emptiness left for us. Because of the reality that we can't reproduce. it feels like so inferior to live an incomplete life. but that's just not an end. I came to know about surrogacy. And it changed my life. with the famous clinic in Europe. They mad my surrogacy so outstanding in presenting all the great co-operation. I would gladly suggest that to all my loved ones. May you all have a glorious journey too.
08-08-2018 10:01 AM
county Hi there! Hope you are in a good state of health. I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss. This is an extremely sad situation for you and your family. I am sure it must have been an extremely difficult condition for you. Please accept our heartfelt sympathies on the loss of your loved one. You are very strong that you are looking for alternatives. Becoming a mother is no more impossible now. IVF and surrogacy are providing many facilities. My cousin had her surrogacy from a clinic in biotexcom. They treated her with great care and respect. At first, she was very nervous but the staff is so encouraging. Good news is that they are going to conduct an event in London very soon. Hope you'll get your solution from there. Good luck.
08-08-2018 09:45 AM
county Hello, everyone, I hope that you all will be fine. I have been facing infertility for a long time. It wasn't easy for me to trust any clinic. At least I tried to make my trust in them. But they only wasted my time. My sister told me about the clinic. I wrote to them. I expected that I would get a positive response. But they broke my hope into pieces. They didn't reply to my emails. I had sent them my medical history too. But till 8 months I didn't get a single reply. I am in a great problem. I can't seek help. Please tell me what to do in this situation. Your suggestions really mean a lot to me
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