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12-11-2018 10:04 AM
Julianna Hey, there. I'm really sorry to hear about your friend's situation. IVF can be time-taking. I hope things work out for her. Nobody deserves to go through all this! Good luck to her. Sending her baby dust.
10-26-2018 08:21 AM
kylie Hey you guys. Hope you are well. Thank you so much for all that concern. it was a little setback for us but we went for it again. At first, she had lost all hope. The thing with IVF is that it doesn't guarantee pregnancy. People who go for it should prepare themselves for the negatives too. My friend wasn't prepared, unfortunately. She actually did conceive after her second transfer though. Those two weeks were the longest for us. She might have lost all hope but I believed this would happen for her. And it did. Thanks to the doctors of her clinic who made this possible for her. She is pregnant now. Thanks for the prayers.
08-19-2018 07:15 AM
Irina21 Hey, honey. I can understand your friend's situation. IVF is very complicated. It can take up to more than one cycle. Don't lose faith, okay? Things will definitely get better for you. And, keep trying, it'll happen!
08-19-2018 03:21 AM
Michelle9 Oh, no! This is awful news. I hope she's alright. I can't believe it. Please tell her to keep trying, though. I know it doesn't look promising. But IVF requires patience. A lot of patience, as well! It happens rarely that it works in the first cycle. A normal process takes up to a couple of tries to work out. So, it's not as bad as it sounds. Tell her to hang in there. I'm absolutely certain that things will get better. My prayers are with her. She can do this!
08-18-2018 03:32 PM
Lisawatson Hey, hope you are doing well. I am so sorry to hear about her. Can you tell me which clinic she is visiting? I am also visiting a clinic in ukraine for my surrogacy. the clinic has higher success rate. So my hopes are high. the procedures are so reliable there. even i have seen almost all successful IVF cases as well in first attempt. do let me know which clinic she is visiting. Maybe i could help her.
08-18-2018 02:17 PM
Mariah1 Hey Kylie! I'm so sorry for your first failed IVF. I guess you should have selected a better clinic. I regret that I clinic I chose initially named Lotus. They do not care for people. They think it is just a business. They don't understand that people's lives and emotions are involved. How important these treatments are for people, they have no idea. I wish that someone takes action against them. You need to be more careful from now on. Please, do your research before visiting a clinic. I have had three miscarriages too and I have chosen a reliable clinic recently for my procedures.
08-18-2018 10:37 AM
Shalley Hey Kylie! Hope you're doing fine. Thank you for sharing the great piece of information. I am really glad that Biotexcom helping a lot of infertile couples. Infertility is the worst disease and it is increasing day by day. I was also infertile. I was really upset when I decided to go for surrogacy. I had my treatment at the Biotexcom clinic. It is the best clinic for infertility. Now I am a mother of a cute daughter. I am really happy and enjoying my life. I can't even explain my feelings about being a mother. It is the best feeling ever. And I am glad to know that BioTexCom team is coming to London very soon. They will give an introduction to infertility and surrogacy and also answer all of your questions. Good luck everyone.
08-18-2018 10:29 AM
KatherineHunter Oh my god. That must've happened because she either went to A**** or L****. Those clinics are the worst. They should be ashamed of themselves. Such unprofessional people. Sue them.
08-18-2018 09:59 AM
olivia_1990 Hey! I am so sorry to hear about your friend. You must support her during such time. It must not be easy for her. Tell her many people around the world are going through this.she must stay strong and never stop believing in herself. Everything will be fine one day. I remember when I got to know about my infertility. I was shattered. I had no hopes, nothing. Then my cousin told me about surrogacy and the clinic she chose. I visited the clinic quite a lot of times now. Its located in Eastern Europe. Their staff is amazing. They have helped me move on from my depression. I am so glad I came across such a clinic.
08-18-2018 09:17 AM
Janny Carter I am so sorry to hear about your loss. This is a post that I can understand. This is not easy. Your story will surely give hope to a lot of people. There are many like you. My sister is also one of them. She had 3 miscarriages after marriage. Due to which she became infertile. She was really depressed. She lost all her hopes. Then she and her husband started looking for alternatives. They found IVF and also a good clinic in Europe. Now they are blessed with a beautiful baby boy. Everything will be alright for you too. I hope everyone gets blessed with children. Take care.
08-18-2018 08:34 AM
juliet Hello there. This is Juliet! I am an infertile! I cannot conceive because i am suffering from a heart disease called mitral stenosis! Doctors said to me that leave the hope of conception! This thing has devastated me! I got really upset! I thought that I could not get my dream fulfilled! Me and my DH love kids! We really wanted to start our family! But the clinic in Ukraine has resolved my problem! My friend had suggested me this clinic! She was like an angel for me! I am thinking to go and visit there! I hope things work out for us! Wish us luck!
08-18-2018 08:32 AM
Juliana Lopez Hello. Health is the great gift is given by God. But we cannot care this. We can know the cost of this gift when we're suffering from diseases. But, then God can give the good clinic, where we can take a good treatment. After the few days ago and we are enjoying good health.
08-18-2018 07:40 AM
Tressalee
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Hey guys. My friend's IVF transfer failed. She is devastated. She is still in Ukraine right now. She had her second transfer a couple of days ago. We are just waiting for the results now. Do pray for her. Thanks.

She is in the best place for her treatment. This clinic will surely help her. It helped me too. I was infertile too. They suggested surrogacy. IVF does not suit me. I returned with my happiness. Tell your friend to stay positive. she will be successful now. Hope for the best
08-18-2018 06:14 AM
saifai I'm very tensed about your friend. No doubt, Infertility is the worst thing. IVF and surrogacy is a good treatment for infertility. But IVF works best for those who have good valid eggs with good ovarian reserve. My friend had IVF but failed miserably. Surrogacy is safer than IVF. There are many fertility clinics in Europe. That's provides the best treatment for infertility. Now she has a cute baby from surrogacy. I wish your friend will have a successful 2nd IVF cycle. But I think she should think about surrogacy. Surrogacy has more rate of success than IVF. Have a safe journey. Good luck.
08-09-2018 01:59 PM
richa I have heard a lot more complaints regarding this clinic Lotus and it really is worrying. I am sure you are right about this clinic. They are pathetic. One of my friends recently emailed them for certain details regarding the procedure. It was a matter of urgency and she was expecting a quick reply. However, the clinic did not respond for a month. Even when they did reply they didn't even answer her queries and directly asked for her details. Email is the first interaction and when that is this unprofessional you really start to question many other things. Anyways, there are many other clinics that you can look into so don't worry. Hope to find much positivity soon as this is appearing on this forum.
08-09-2018 10:55 AM
sheilat I hope you're doing well. It's an awful situation. You must be devastated. Trust me, I can relate. We'd do anything to conceive naturally. However, we just can't. Does it mean we shouldn't try alternatives? I don't think so. I think it's important to get help from wherever we get it. Surrogacy is a really good alternative. There is so much hope and we are finally moving forward. Tho I'm really sorry to hear about your struggles. It looks like you're going through a rough patch. I would suggest that you keep the faith. Please, don't lose hope. Things will get better, ASAP.
08-09-2018 10:53 AM
sheilat Sorry to hear about your losses. It is difficult to overcome the pain. You suffered too much because of miscarriages. Miscarriages are the worst behavior of the clinics. We are in the same boat. I also had two miscarriages in the past. The doctor told me about my infertility. I was in depression. It was hard for me. Great to know your thoughts about surrogacy. You are correct. It gives you the most satisfying outcomes and is secure enough as compared to the other methods. So I suggest that going for surrogacy will be a good decision. But it opting for surrogacy and then search for the clinic is the real deal. Anyway, good luck
08-08-2018 01:19 PM
richa That’s such an annoying thing to hear. I can’t believe Lotus clinic is that careless. How can one be so careless? Especially when they’re specializing in this field. They are so insensitive. And this isn’t a concern only for you. So many people have been through the same.They just don’t respect the value of our time. We need to stop wasting our time them by emailing them. They don’t care about the people. They are so heartless that they don’t even care about our emotions. We should choose a clinic after a lot of research wisely. I have faced that same problem a few months back. I was so devastated. But then everything turned out great for me. Best of luck to you all too.
08-08-2018 01:12 PM
sheilat Welcome to this forum. We're like a family here. You can always post about your problems and you'll get help. I'm glad you shared your problem. How you miscarried was there any reason behind this? I am sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I had two miscarriages after marriage. Above all, we contacted a bad clinic called Lotus. I had lost all hope to become a mother. Then my husband and I started looking for alternatives. We found IVF and also a good clinic. We were reluctant in the beginning. Nevertheless, we took our chances. Now we are blessed with a beautiful baby boy. I hope everyone gets blessed with children. Cheers
08-08-2018 09:47 AM
saifai I am really sorry about your friend problems. She has gone through a very trough time. It was difficult for you. My friend had a miscarriage in a road accident. After that, she could not become a mother. Her doctor declared her an infertile. Then she moved to Europe for IVF. Now she is under treatment in Biotexcom. I wish she will become a mother soon. I think your friend should have to move to another clinic. I hope she will find a good clinic like Biotexcom. I wish your friend will become a mother soon. Lots of love take care of yourself. Best of luck for the future.
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