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| 09-17-2018 05:08 AM | |
| beemom | Hi amelia. Sorry to hear about your infertility but unfortunately I can relate. You didn't mention anything about reasons of your infertility, would you mind sharing? Surrogacy is so so complex process that takes much time, energy and money. Are you sure there are no other ways for you but surrogacy? I did IVF in Czech Republic and I carried a son. We wanted a sibling, but my doctor said it was too high risk for me to have another pregnancy. It's not legal here, so we started googling overseas surrogacy and came up with Ukraine and Georgia. If therewas a chance to have a baby in a different way, I would do this..but I can't. |
| 08-29-2018 01:06 PM | |
| shirley1 | I'm glad you did not lose hope. I have never gone for it, But I have heard so much about it. Its success rate is very high. Well, If you want it to be successful so go for the best clinic. So I believe you should go to the best clinic. There is no need to choose a clinic without proper research. Hopefully it would be beneficial for you. My best wishes are with you |
| 08-29-2018 08:58 AM | |
| ginny | Hi dear! I must say surrogacy is a blessing for a lady. A lady suffering from infertility can opt for this option. No one wants to be childless. Every couple wants to have kids. Kids complete the families. I am glad that technology has drastically improved. In gestational surrogacy. A surrogate mother carries the baby of a third person in her womb. Some clinics also provide the surrogate mother on their behalf. The clinic in Europe treating this best. They work under the proper lawsuit to avoid any troubles in future. So everyone don’t be afraid to opt for this option. But be careful while choosing the clinic. May the odds be in our favor. Take care. |
| 08-28-2018 12:47 PM | |
| floran | Hi, I hope you are doing fine. I am so sorry for you. I know infertility would be so difficult for you. Well, I hope you will find the best in your life. Please tell me that how you came to know about this process. Secondly which clinic are you choosing? If you want a success in this process so I think that you should go to the best clinic. I hope it would be helpful. |
| 08-28-2018 10:40 AM | |
| ameliabrown | I hope surrogacy works for you. It is a wonder treatment. I respect and value surrogates, donors and clinics who are putting in their efforts to brighten someone's life. A child is the most precious gift of nature. Infertility clinics, SMs, and donors work together to ensure that a childless person enjoys parenthood. It sometimes breaks my heart to see clinics like A****s who affect the overall image of infertility clinics. The negligence and unprofessional attitude of one clinic do affect the general perception of the public about the rest too. I really hope that such clinics are banned to save the overall image of infertility clinics. |
| 08-28-2018 10:09 AM | |
| bennita | I am happy that you are moving on. I never had this but I think it is good to process to go for. Its success rate is very high. Well, As far as I know, its success depends on the clinic you choose. So I believe that you should go to the best clinic. Never choose a clinic without proper research. I hope it would be helpful to you. My best wishes are with you. |
| 08-28-2018 09:46 AM | |
| edna | Surrogacy is indeed a very long journey. But it has proved to be very beneficial to a lot of people. It has proved to be a blessing. So many people opt for it to have a baby. It is a very sure shot. People also go for other assisted methods like IVF and IUI. But surrogacy has the highest success rates. I am glad that you decided to go for it. I hope your journey goes fine until the end. Just keep your hopes high always. Don't lose faith in yourself. Wish you all the best with it. My prayers are with you. Keep updating us. We all are here to help you. |
| 08-28-2018 06:38 AM | |
| ginny | Hi dear! I am fine thank you. How are you? I am glad that you chose the right option. Gestational surrogacy is the best option you can opt for. In this process, the surrogate mother carries the baby biologically yours in her womb. The thing is the success chance is high if you consult the best clinic. Some clinics also provide the surrogate mother. Like a clinic in Europe. They work under the proper lawsuits to avoid any trouble in future. I had my IVF treatment for this clinic. I was afraid at first. But, the staff is so encouraging and cooperative. They didn't only tell me the details of the process but also encourage me for this option. I believe your process will also go smoothly. May you have all the happiness you ever wanted. |
| 08-28-2018 05:50 AM | |
| Emilyking | I will pray for you. I know how much this means to you guys. The surrogate will surely be pregnant soon. Btw where did you get the surrogacy done from? I need suggestions too. It's not like I am blank though. I am touch with a clinic in Europe. Still, I wanna be sure. It is also possible you are going to the same clinic. In any case, I just need success stories. In addition to this, I wanna know what things to keep in mind. Like a checklist kind of thing. Do help me out whenever you are free. Keep me in your prayers. Baby dust to you. |
| 08-28-2018 05:21 AM | |
| Farrah41 |
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Hello there. I'm doing very well and I hope you're good too. Well, you must be! You seem so excited yet worried. I know that this waiting period is like a patience test. A very extreme one. You can't sleep at night and just keep thinking about the result. As an anxious person, I get very worried even about little things. I remember my time when I was in your situation, I was suffering from insomnia. I would call up the clinic every 2 hours and ask them about the surrogate. But my clinic was very cooperative throughout this time. They never seemed annoyed by me, always talked to me in a friendly mood. I respect them so much for this. I had a wonderful procedure and I credit the clinic for this. So, don't worry, dear. Pray for yourself. I hope we read good news soon. All the best!
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| 08-28-2018 04:03 AM | |
| cecelia | Honey you need to be strong to know the results. Although I wish everything is smooth and safe. May all the odds be in your favor. Only a good clinic can fulfill your dream. The others are waiting to make money. I hope you went to the right place. I can never be happy with a bad decision such as a bad reputation clinic. Therefore I am going to visit a reliable clinic. My appointment is set for this weekend. I hope everything goes fine for me. Infertility has done some serious emotional damage to me. I am going to discuss the charges. I may have to borrow. It is a little bit out of my pocket, as what I have calculated. |
| 08-28-2018 12:45 AM | |
| joshien | That’s a pretty motivating story to hear! I’ve seen many women getting their lives changed through the surrogacy. Each day I got to hear such amazing news. I am an infertile person too. And I am looking for such procedures for so long. This would probably make me even stronger to look for this procedure. Love.XX |
| 08-27-2018 10:15 PM | |
| juliet | Hello! Hope you are well! That's Great dear. Extremely cheerful to discover that you have picked Surrogacy. Not the greater part of the general population put it all on the line. No doubt it's a major advance from you. I hope that the outcome turns out as indicated by your desires. Else, I recognize what will happen to you. You'll get disappointed. I can understand that emotion. Why? Since I additionally went for this treatment. A friend recommended me about Surrogacy. Yet, I needed to affirm first. So I checked through the web. As I discovered she was right. Surrogacy has a higher achievement rate. Furthermore, it is a gift for the Infertiles. |
| 08-27-2018 08:59 PM | |
| RitaSands | Well, can relate your problem. Try any of the assisted procedures? Or you can have surrogacy? Yes! I've also wasted years as a TTC. Now, going for one. So, yeah! You can still be a mother. One way or another! SORRY, If I was a little blunt or straight-forward! *That's my way* |
| 08-27-2018 06:52 PM | |
| Mariah1 | I have the same story as yours. I can't conceive naturally either. I have chosen surrogacy as a solution to my infertility. However, before doing this I went to Lotus clinic. I went there for IVF and it wasn't successful. My experience there wasn't as I expected. I changed the clinic and now I am going to welcome my baby daughter in October. I am 38 years old right now and really happy. |
| 08-27-2018 04:47 PM | |
| Lilystan | I am sorry about what you went through. It must have been really difficult. But don't stress about it. I have heard that these clinics are not honest with their work. These clinics have done this to so many people. They are just heartless. Clinics such as l****s. I was told that my cervix was damaged due to pelvic inflammatory. My doctor told me to go for surrogacy. So after consulting other specialists, i heard about a clinic, and so i contacted the l****S clinic. I sent them so man emails, but got no reply. They did not help me out at all. I was so depressed after that.The clinic ignored every email. And they did not even try to help me out. I was devastated, as i thought there would be no way out. But i had faith, and i was motivated to find a good clinci. Because surrogacy is really a good thing to go for. |
| 08-27-2018 02:14 PM | |
| sophia123 | I am sad for your circumstance. I wish things would have been easier and you have not needed to experience it. Truly, male fruitlessness happens. Fruitlessness could transpire independent of your sexual orientation. In this way, it's okay. Much the same as barrenness in females is dealt with for male fruitlessness can be dealt with in like manner. Surrogacy and IVF can likewise be used in this angle yet please ensure and clear the majority of your questions previously experiencing any strategy. It would be ideal if you remain solid since you should feel down and lost yet you truly need to remain cheerful in this circumstance. My supplications are with you. |
| 08-27-2018 02:06 PM | |
| justicejay | Hello there. I'm doing very well and I hope you're good too. Well, you must be! You seem so excited yet worried. I know that this waiting period is like a patience test. A very extreme one. You can't sleep at night and just keep thinking about the result. As an anxious person, I get very worried even about little things. I remember my time when I was in your situation, I was suffering from insomnia. I would call up the clinic every 2 hours and ask them about the surrogate. But my clinic was very cooperative throughout this time. They never seemed annoyed by me, always talked to me in a friendly mood. I respect them so much for this. I had a wonderful procedure and I credit the clinic for this. So, don't worry, dear. Pray for yourself. I hope we read good news soon. All the best! |
| 08-27-2018 01:46 PM | |
| Shalley | Hey there! You're right it is a great option. I don't recommend it to those that can conceive naturally. But for infertile couples, it is a good option. I have recently registered for it as well. I can't have safe pregnancies so after a lot of thinking I went for it. My partner and I were open to other options as well. But a really close friend suggested a good clinic, so we checked it out. I hope things go smoothly. |
| 08-27-2018 12:31 PM | |
| eliza | We all will definitely pray for you. I can understand that you are dealing with a lot. It is not easy to deal with infertility. You must have faced so many hardships. Things must have been really hard for you. But everything is going to be okay with the passage of time. You have taken the right decision to go for surrogacy. I am sure you won't regret your decision. Surrogacy is indeed a blessing. It has proved to be beneficial for a lot of people. I am hopeful that you will be blessed with a baby too. Just don't lose faith in yourself. My prayers with you. |
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