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03-09-2019 06:59 AM
kylie
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Originally Posted by diamond View Post
Hey, it felt good to hear about your friend. Tell her not to stress over it. Stress ruins such treatments. She needs to be completely relaxed about it. Only this way it will go successfully. I am sure everything will go fine for her. Keep us updated regarding the whole treatment. xx
Hello. Thank you for your comment. I tried telling her that a million times. But there was nothing I could do to distract her. But your stories have helped her a lot. She is feeling better about this. Thank for your concern. You guys are amazing.
02-08-2019 07:16 AM
Julianna Kylie, stress is normal. It's okay to feel that way. It's quite a tough experience, to be fair. I don't blame her to be feeling all this. It's just good to see that she decided to go for it, either way. It makes me really happy to know that it all worked out well. I'm so happy for her! Send her my felicitations!
02-05-2019 11:11 AM
kylie
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Originally Posted by Julianna View Post
She must be so excited! I remember the time when I was about to undergo IVF. I was really nervous, as well. It's natural, you know. It'll be fine. I'm glad she has a good friend around her. Hopefully, things work out for her!
She was excited, yeah. But she was really nervous and stressed out too. She was so stressed out because of the possibility of this failing for her. But I'm glad it didn't. There were a few bumps along the way. But she made it!!! Thank you for your comment.
01-06-2019 05:34 AM
kylie
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Originally Posted by Susie View Post
Exciting times for her! Tell her to relax, because getting anxious won't help her. I was also nervous, but I'm glad I did not have to wait. It happened for me in the first attempt. So lucky, I know! I hope she gets to experience this happiness. Good luck to her.
Hello Susie. Thank you so much for commenting here. You are such a lucky person. It rarely happens in the first attempt. But I'm glad it did for you. Congratulations. It took my friends two transfer to finally conceive. The doctors hoped it would happen. They weren't wrong.
01-06-2019 05:31 AM
kylie
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Originally Posted by Alena View Post
Hi, Kylie! This is really positive. I'm happy for your friend. Tell her to chill out. I'm sure the doctors have suggested it because they think it's a good option for her. She'll have to be patient. It doesn't necessarily work out in the initial cycles. It can take a few attempts. Took me three! Just make sure she doesn't lose hope. Good luck to her. I genuinely hope she doesn't wait a lot. It can be really hard. The two-week wait is awful! But good things come to those who wait! xx
Hii. Hope you are well. Thanks for commenting here. It makes me so happy to see your concern about us. I'm glad you stayed hopeful throughout your journey. Congratulations on finally getting pregnant through IVF. Thanks for the advice!
12-08-2018 08:13 AM
Julianna She must be so excited! I remember the time when I was about to undergo IVF. I was really nervous, as well. It's natural, you know. It'll be fine. I'm glad she has a good friend around her. Hopefully, things work out for her!
12-06-2018 09:03 AM
MinLaz Good luck to your friend! The only thing she needs to worry about is the two-week wait, haha! That can be really annoying. Apart from that, she should hope for the best! I'd love it if you could keep us updated on her situation. Really hope things work out for her. And, she doesn't have to wait, a lot.
12-06-2018 08:09 AM
Alena Hi, Kylie! This is really positive. I'm happy for your friend. Tell her to chill out. I'm sure the doctors have suggested it because they think it's a good option for her. She'll have to be patient. It doesn't necessarily work out in the initial cycles. It can take a few attempts. Took me three! Just make sure she doesn't lose hope. Good luck to her. I genuinely hope she doesn't wait a lot. It can be really hard. The two-week wait is awful! But good things come to those who wait! xx
12-03-2018 08:02 AM
Susie Exciting times for her! Tell her to relax, because getting anxious won't help her. I was also nervous, but I'm glad I did not have to wait. It happened for me in the first attempt. So lucky, I know! I hope she gets to experience this happiness. Good luck to her.
11-23-2018 12:28 AM
kylie
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Originally Posted by monika View Post
Hey, Kylie, you should tell your friend to not worry. Things will definitely go perfectly fine. The major thing she should know is to not be stressed. Stay positive and wait for the things to happen. Although I am not going for IVF I still meet a lot of people at the clinic who are going through this process. They tell me a good clinic can make a lot of difference. As the doctors here are very careful about the process from every small to the big step. So best of luck to her and hoping the very best for her.
Hello. Thanks for the comment. I completely agree with you. Stress plays a huge role here. I really wanted her to be less stressed before her transfer. But she just can't help it sometimes. We chose a great clinic for her, there is no doubt in that. I was their previous client. My experience was really good. I wanted her to be in good hands just like I was.
04-02-2018 11:19 AM
kylie Hi. Thank you so much for all the help, guys. I feel so overwhelmed with your response. you people really help and care a lot. My friend feels better about this now. This was really helpful. Love you all.
04-01-2018 09:15 PM
Hillgreen105r Hi there.Happy to know about the friend.Good to know about her, that she had to go through the IVF process.It is the nice and adorable feeling in every woman life when holding their baby.Children are blessing and precious gift too from God.Nothing will compare to take place this blessing.It's a great process, Last year my best friend had this in Ukraine.Where she got success in her first attempt.She is so happy now to live with her cute baby boy.I am sending your friend great strength and prayers.I hope she is doing great and have a positive success.Best wishes to her.Think positive and it will happen.Keep trying with better luck.Stay healthy and happy.
03-31-2018 10:35 AM
monika Hey, Kylie, you should tell your friend to not worry. Things will definitely go perfectly fine. The major thing she should know is to not be stressed.Stay positive and wait for the things to happen. Although I am not going for IVF I still meet a lot of people at the clinic who are going through this process. They tell me a good clinic can make a lot of difference. As the doctors here are very careful about the process from every small to the big step. So best of luck to her and hoping the very best for her.
03-31-2018 10:04 AM
kylie
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Originally Posted by caroline1975 View Post
Today when people are selfish, it is very difficult to think of a friend that can be really helpful. You are doing a great job for your friend. She is in need of support and you are collecting maximum information for her. I hope that you will gather all the essential info on IVF that can be helpful for her in recovering from her fears and apprehensions. Actually, your friend is scared because she is not aware of the truth behind IVF. For her, it appears that it is merely some kind of surgery or a medical procedure involving serious processes. This thing has to be removed. You can see a number of videos coming up every day on the YouTube that have enough information regarding IVF processes. In simple words, it is a process in which the fertilization does not take place in a normal manner. Instead, it all happens outside the motherly womb. Once the process of fertilization completes, it is followed by the normal pregnancy procedure. In case she is having some kind of problem with her eggs, she can get the assistance from an egg donor too. I hope together you both will win the war against infertility. At this time she wants someone to hold her hand. If she gets the love and affection she will overcome all the fears. Wishing you all the best in life.
Hello. Thank you so much for such an informative comment. It helped a lot. It is nice to know that people really do care out there. My friend is feeling so much better about this whole thing now. Hopefully, it will go well for her. Thanks again.
03-30-2018 10:22 PM
moms_22
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Originally Posted by kylie View Post
Hey everyone. So my friend's first IVF cycle is starting next month. She is very nervous at the moment. It would mean a lot to us if you share your successful IVF stories. They will make her feel better about this. Thank you so much. Your prayers will be appreciated too.
Hey Kylie!. To begin my husband and I was TTC for 5 ½ years before our prosperity. Our unique analysis was my significant other was conceived without vas deferens (the tubes that vehicle port sperm to in the long run turn out). We initially went to 3 urologists before somebody made this revelation. It was evident now the best way to wind up pregnant was for my husband other to have a task to separate sperm and for me to experience IVF. Since we were youthful the RE felt this was an idiot-proof case. My first IVF we exchanged 3 embies and progressed toward becoming pg, however later m/c at 9weeks. This was crushing to both my better half and I. I fell into a profound misery and never figured I would discover the fearlessness to proceed with another cycle. With the assistance of such huge numbers of ladies on this bb, I discovered the plan to proceed. I had 4 embies solidified thus 3 months after the m/c were completed a FET set back every one of the 4 pg tests was negative. This was miserable for me however unquestionably not an indistinguishable feeling from the m/c still I had to want to do another new IVF thus 3 months after the fact I did another cycle. Tragically my recovery was done on 9/11/01 and since I live in NY this was not a decent time to be in a clinic, so I have surged out and unfortunately, that cycle was negative also. So I assumed that cycle never had a possibility because of the conditions that day. Regardless I stayed confident and we had 3 solidified embies which were exchanged 2 months after the fact and that was likewise negative. I began to do some examination to attempt to make sense of what else I could do to upgrade the shot of my next crisp cycle being a win. I had inquired as to whether I ought to be tried for resistant clutters and he said no, I am youthful and I will get pg it might take two or three cycles he likewise continued demanding it was my spouses' sperm that was bad and recommended I utilize giver sperm. Considering IVF is an extremely costly fiscally and in addition an enthusiastic procedure I needed to give myself an ideal possibility of being effective in my next cycle. I did my third new cycle which was the most exceedingly bad concerning eggs created and prepared. The RE considered my age in charge of this negative, remember I was just 30. I chose to research and converse with other ladies that as of late end up effective after numerous negative.
Here is some guidance I offer any individual who is battling with barrenness as I did. Stay positive through all the high points and low points. Obviously, lament your misfortunes and negatives, yet never a free sight of your objective. For me, in the event that I couldn't manage the cost of out of pocket, I changed employment that offered IVF protection scope. Do your own exploration on the off chance that you need something sufficiently terrible you need to take the necessary steps yourself. I tuned in to my gut that the principal RE did not know enough about a safety issue so get a moment sentiment. For me removing a long break from fruitlessness drugs benefited me. It gave personal time to clear my psyche and move forward with my eighth cycle. Obviously being a piece of care groups truly is vital for your psychological prosperity. Above all else, I must pressure it as much as possible staying positive, positive and positive.
I want you to enjoy all that life has to offer kindly don't falter to post me on the off chance that you have any inquiries.
03-30-2018 11:50 AM
Rhonda492 Hi! I hope your friend is happy going for this. I know that IVF is done after a lot of TTC. I also understand that failed attempts at TTC might have put her down. But it's great that she's up and ready to go. It's great to see that so many women here support us. I am also infertile. I didn't have as much support because I didn't share my stories. Now that I do, I see it really helps. It's okay for your friend to be nervous. Just make sure she takes proper medication before her IVF. Where is she getting it done, though? I was opting for IVF but then had a hysterectomy. Then I had surrogacy to have my baby. These methods do wonders to change our lives for the better. I would love to hear her updates!
03-30-2018 07:21 AM
lauren Your worry is correct and I disclose to you something there's not something to be frightened of keeping yourself quiet and take the technique without flaw and it will be a fruitful endeavor. In the first place, in the event that you utilize your own eggs, hormones will be given to invigorate egg creation, while avoiding ovulation until the coveted time. Your estrogen levels will be observed more than a few days and furthermore vaginal ultrasound is utilized to screen the development, size and number of creating ovarian follicles and after that there comes the procedure of egg recovery on the off chance that it is fruitful and on time there won't be many issues a while later, at that point treatment in development medium well the most imperative thing is the soundness of surrogate you pick, her blood tests and general wellbeing condition and after exchange of fetus if she's very much observed by a specialist to ensure prescription levels and impacts are suitable and furthermore have extra ultrasounds to appear if implantation happened she'll be moved from ripeness facility to OB/GYN and from that point everything will ideally go well after her normal checkups and better wellbeing schedule.
03-30-2018 06:21 AM
kylie
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Originally Posted by ella232 View Post
Hello there! I hope you are doing fine. Surrogacy is an incredible procedure. You shouldn't stress about it. I got married in 2009. I have had three miscarriages since then. I had lost all hope to become a mother. Then I was told about a Ukraine based clinic by a former colleague. They informed us about surrogacy. We were reluctant in the beginning. Nevertheless, we took our chances. Now I am blessed with a beautiful baby boy. I wish that everyone gets blessed with children. Best of luck. Cheers
Hey, Ella. Congratulations to you. I had my son through surrogacy too. That too from Ukraine. This is no coincidence. The clinic there is just so good that everyone visits them for their infertility treatments. I'm taking my friend there for her IVF procedure as well. Wish us luck.
03-29-2018 12:05 PM
diamond Hey, it felt good to hear about your friend. Tell her not to stress over it. Stress ruins such treatments. She needs to be completely relaxed about it. Only this way it will go successfully. I am sure everything will go fine for her. Keep us updated regarding the whole treatment. xx
03-29-2018 09:30 AM
ella232 Hello there! I hope you are doing fine. Surrogacy is an incredible procedure. You shouldn't stress about it. I got married in 2009. I have had three miscarriages since then. I had lost all hope to become a mother. Then I was told about a Ukraine based clinic by a former colleague. They informed us about surrogacy. We were reluctant in the beginning. Nevertheless, we took our chances. Now I am blessed with a beautiful baby boy. I wish that everyone gets blessed with children. Best of luck. Cheers
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